
So i have this exactly situation on my family. My mom is divorce too like the bob black hair. She always calling her friend (which is already married for 20 more years). She said it's just a normal conversation like a friend, but the thing is my mom catch feeling to her friend :( , she tells me that she want to be his second wife :(
And the more shocking is her friend is love my mom too :(
My mom and her friend never really hang out privately (like going to love hotel), just call almost everyday and they seeing each other but it's just hang out to restaurant.
Is it calling cheating :( ?
I already told my mom "That's cheating" but she said it's not:(((

Thatās not normal. Iād speak up if I were you. My mother did something similar after my father passed away. My dadās friend kept coming by to help her with this or that or to take her here or there and soon his wife starting getting upset and jealous. I told my mother honestly that even if the wife is being insecure, itās still my momās fault for relying on a married man and meeting with him, so she stopped.
Itās tough when itās your own mother behaving like this, but i knew i wouldnāt be able to forgive myself if i didnāt say something to her

I have telling my mom countless time, like : "Mom, stop calling him in a tone like that (my mom acting very cute and feminine with him)" and other complain, but it seems my mom don't care at all :")
Do you have other suggestion? I'm just afraid for being in the middle of an affair and can't do anything.
The shit feeling when you already broken inside on a broken home family.... It just feels shit. My dad is a scum too. I have no one. All my friends have been treating me cold lately, so yeah.. It feels really shitty with my mom situation.

That is not normal. I hate this kind of feeling as the child. My father was cheating. We really angry at him but we do try to settle the things down. Even i said to my mom if you dont want to be hurt more, please divorce. You know what, the realistics event is the same with this manga describe. My mom cannot pay for the bill herself, so she still stick with the marriage. The funniest thing is i found out that my mom often calling someone younger than her, who already a husband and father of 3. I feel BETRAYED. why? I stick with her, support her, listening to her by myself. My brother away from home at that time, and i dont tell him for certain reasons. I shout at her, asking why the hell she is doing that? i said to her, if you do this, you not different from my father's woman. Well, she give excuse, she was calling her friend. And i told her "i know how you talk with your friend. Dont try to fool me, you not save your friend number even though you call each other many times. I wanna puke every time you answered that call". We have big fight because i block my mom's friend number. I exhausted mentally, facing the cheating parents by my own, i dont even told my brother or friends, not to mention my family. That's is in the past, but the memory still haunted me. I am afraid of marriage, really.
I thought he was an M