Ailux's Things

Uhm... It's cheese on crackers...   reply

I dated for years without having s*x myself. I've only done it with my now husband. It is entirely possible. Don't worry; if people really care about you they'll respect your wishes and values.   1 reply

Sexuality is a spectrum. You don't need to label yourself in any way. If you like him, go ahead. I identify myself as heterosexual because I've always liked guys but there are a couple exceptions. It could be the same for you.   reply

Why don't you go marry somewhere else and then come back to the States? Moving to a different country has pros and cons, and that needs to be evaluated for each country in your list. Some countries won't let you move there unless you have a job or plenty of money.   reply