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Blueberrybitch December 17, 2024 3:13 pm

It's so nice to see that both Yirim and Cheongho who were born without parents and in others care give Yiho so much love and build up the family they never had. It's like we are not letting our son grow with the same insecurities and loneliness as we did and that just warms my heart so much. I love this family so much like this is my most favourite bl now replacing cherry blossoms after winter

Blueberrybitch November 22, 2024 1:23 am

I don't think the people complaining in the comment section about how annoying Yi Rim is for not communicating well and running away understands how when you are abandoned so much as a kid and when your needs are less prioritised by your care givers, the children often grow up being avoidant or developing an unhealthy attachment style. It's probably that and also the fact that so many people in his life gave him less importance when he really needed it he grew up with the mentality that his needs and all comes second. Like he wanted to also be with Cheongho but he didn't want his needs to be the reason as to why Cheongho had to stop doing what he loved. I think he had more of an anxious avoidant style of attachment if I'm not wrong. Children with an anxious avoidant attachment style may learn to suppress their need for comfort when upset, depend on themselves, develop a premature sense of independence, and shut down their emotional needs. As adults, people with an anxious avoidant attachment style may have difficulty maintaining relationships because they may not trust others to not reject or let them down. Yi Rim's is growth and his healing stage as a character was really nice. I didn't find it particularly annoying, but I found myself understanding as to why he would do those decisions because I also felt like that as a child. I feel like communication is easier said than done and most people in relationship would know how it feels. I feel like it's good to come from a place of consideration when you are reading about characters dealing with emotional and physical neglect as a child because most of the time what they do isn't intentional but just them dealing with their mental trauma. Idk the story was pretty clear on all aspects idk why some ppl are having a mind fuck from it

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