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my brother has a thing with trashes at bins. i don’t remember what it’s called, it’s when you’re a clean freak? he can’t stand trashes at a bin and would puke at the sight of them. he doesn’t want to touch them and he said it’s itchy when he does (it’s just his mind). went to the therapist and the therapist makes him touch them step by step. he needs something to overcome them. i think it’s the same as what shii is doing (after knowing tamaki’s issue)

Listen mate, Your brothers going to the therapist, that guy in the story is not a therapist, he is a highschool student, ya get me? Tamaki should get actual help from a therapist.

Tamaki would never go willingly to see a therapist ekfskfk, like ever. The only reason Tamaki is having progress on overcoming his trauma is his best friend. Even though Shii's reasons are selfish, he means no harm and gave Tamaki all the chances he could've wanted, and he didn't take them.

Idk... That really isn't the best way, I don't think he really wants to get the help from shii either.. I'm open to any idea whatsoever but I feel like he will do much better at a therapist, but now that I think about it I guess he feels more comfortable with shii, but what if Tamaki feels more uncomfortable because he doesn't want to go through with it, it might be more traumatic.. Idk I don't have an opinion anymore I'll just see where the story leads to..

I appreciate you worrying about them finding a healthy and efficient way to overcome Tamaki's trauma, and wanting him to be comfortable. Shii also values Tamaki's comfort very much, he offered to forget their deal witch he worked very hard to get, Tamaki feels responsible for Shii's feelings towards him, and so he chooses to keep the deal. If that skinship was really that unbearable, I don't think he would've kept the deal, instead he would just agree and sleep.
Shii DID have a problematic approach in the begining, trying to force things on Tamaki, but as we saw, Tamaki is very much capable of refusing him verbally and phisically, so I don't think that will be an issue anymore, since Shii's approaching was very harshly rejected.
This new approach from last chapter however, I find it very healthy and efficient, since it relied on a lot of communication and them negotiating something that would be good for both. Shii's now very concerned with Tamaki's consent, given their last interactions, and Tamaki is agreeing with everything done to him even if he is afraid.
Even though therapy is awesome, it isn't for everyone or every situation. Therapy doesn't have to come from a therapist either, that's why I understand the current circumstances of the two as being the best regarding their feelings.

Definetly, I agree with your opinion greatly, les just see where dis goes now

Your comment got me

lmao