yibeikafei's Things

Hmm... Romanticizing rape & other non-consensual acts is a horrible trope in BL that needs to stop. But sometimes a story includes rape because it is a drama, thriller or horror and it just touches upon heavier topics. Killing Stalking and Painter of the Night are definitely examples for that. I think, perhaps if you read these manhwas with the exp......   reply

I totally agree, I love "Here U Are" but thought I should mention that DJun is most likely a girl. Or at least, what I am 100% sure is that people refer to DJun with female pronouns in Chinese (ie 她). I was also quite excited when I read somewhere that DJun is a dude so I went on Weibo, and found out that a lot of people are actually confused abo......   reply

It works differently for each person, so please give yourself more time and do not worry too much about stuff like not having that "aha!" moment. People experience emotions in different levels of intensities. You do not need feel like you are struck by lightning when you see someone you are attracted to and perhaps, you will never feel that way... ......   reply

On the internet, people often overstep boundaries. That person is probably just being a typical internet troll and/or just jokingly implying that they dont wanna waste their time socializing if the other person is bottom. Well, that may sound weird to some people but this kind of attitude is common within the gay community (in a sexual context) but......   reply

I am sorry to hear that you're going through a hard time. I just wanted to say that, if you can help it, don't assume that your friendship is burdensome to your friends. You are trying to make a conversation, you are not trying to bother them. It is normal to feel that way (especially when we are feeling down) but don't forget that it could be just......   reply