Moonflower Gems you're the best. I took one look at that watermarked gibberish and tapped right back out in 0.5 seconds. Was relieved to get another notification. I have no problem returning for the best.
Facts
The bar is beneath hell. Satan, in his confusion, has agreed to help us look for it because no way in HELL she's trying get him to be impressed and amazed that the man picked him up to take him home to the place they live! This has to be a set up Do yoon put together to fuck with Yejun.
like bro i would be more surprised if the man that i call my husband didnt pick me up tf
The writer went out of their way to give you Haegyeong's backstory in order to establish that his behaviour is not because he is stupid, naive or a masochist. What he is is someone who grew up in an abusive household. That kind of environment literally rewires your mind. He had to get a restraining order even after his parents divorced. The only person who could truly understand his experience couldn't stand to see him. This left him vulnerable to a childhood friend who was nice sometimes but eventually indulged in abusive behaviour himself: isolating him from potential support systems, positioning himself as the only one who cares etc. When this is the environment that has fundamentally shaped your sense of self and how you look at the world it is incredibly difficult to break out of it, even when you gain enough knowledge to know that you need to.
Think about all the bad habits you have, the things about yourself that you know need to change and yet have done absolutely nothing about. Or you did and then you fall back into old patterns. If you're stupid, fair enough, but that's a you problem, no reason to project, seek help...
Anyway, I don't like Kwonlim either, he seems to have his own creepy agenda. Yuck. What went down in that family home.
I wish I could like this 1000x
You seem to be the only one with a brain these days.
Thank you the replies under here are pissing me off
kiki do u love me... bevause i yruly fo adore u.. every other braibless baboob here oreps ragging on poor mc as if he hasnt endured enough abuse. hes not stupid hes just a victim !!
I wish I could be excited about any of this. Unfortunately, I already thought the 10000 chapters long flashback was a tedious slog that needlessly swerved into creepy I-raised-you-then-effed-you territory. I'm the one that needs a memory wipe.
hahaha i feel you☠ groomed an uwu dragon & all the memory loss is making me dizzy
I thought this turned into an interracial romance. We need a 23andme investigation into that dick's ancestry.
Now, no one can tell me he wasn't set up. How can you KNOW this was a dangerous job and send him by himself like he has some kind of immunity...
Spoiler*
He was set up
I thought he's "brother" liked him though... Why did he do that??
Read the novel btw it's pretty simple abet expected plot twist
Sweetie, he's trying to give your ass a break. Take the break!
He don’t want break he wants to get that man’s scent off of him as soon as possible
I know it's super common in BL to present romantic sex as the no 1 thing rape victims want *right* after being violated. But they often (dare I say mostly?) want no sex at all (zero, zilch, nada) and I'd like a writer to acknowledge it once every 5 years or so. Even in this omegaverse scenario where pheromones are a factor and he has been trained into this kind of behaviour: allow him to accept the care being offered. They have water in Olden Times Korea, they can take a bath together.
Pipe dream, I know, obviously what his battered mind and body needs is the romantic baseball bat of pheremonal true love up his bruised and sore ass. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
Actually this is maybe more guides and espers than anything but you get what I mean, I hope.
Yh I know wat u mean It’d be nice to find a story that projects a more ‘realistic’, different view than the ‘trend’ that is constantly repeating in the bl world cuz honestly tho in my opinion if your a true bl fan the erotic parts would not be the main reason to get u interested in a storyline, I just wish all the artists out there planning to draw/write romance stories understands that the erotic part is gonna be interesting and exciting at first but on the long run if u want ppl to actually read ur work u gotta have a decent storyline
No I think this thing has been going on in every bl universe honestly. I’ve seen this typical scenario so many times that it’s starting to become normal
Moonflower Gem, please don't let the bots discourage you from uploading chapter 3 because that translation might as well have been ancient hieroglyphics to me :'(. Otherwise, praying for official soon, I don't like struggle and this title seems cute, I will pay. (￣∇￣")
This read like three seasons worth of story smooshed into one. Ricky's plot to use Jaewoo as a pawn to trap Rohan was the first. We could have gotten a more fleshed out story about that rivalry between Risky and Rohan alongside the whatever between Risky and Jaewoo. (That way an actual reason/motivation for burning down a whole town could have been developed !) Second season would be Jaewoo's rise as a mafia boss with Rohan. Right now he just looks like a kid who went to gym on a free membership trial please be serious. (We could have gotten more insight into Risky + Doctor's backstory too.) Then the third could be Risky and Jaewoo reunion as equals in whatever this nonsense Centineo blah blah is.
Sigh. I just skimmed the last 5 chapters. I'm out. Toodles!
It is endlessly frustrating what simplistic moralising happens on this site from people whose own lives would not bear scrutiny if someone wrote about it for public consumption. Is it truly so difficult to look at this situation and conclude that 1. She crossed boundaries, should be sorry and apologise. She has stuff to deal with and she can't have it spill over like that. 2 Her actions came from a more complicated and entangled place than simply being a bitch? There was so much to read in between the lines of her story that she herself did not (and perhaps could not) articulate in the moment.
It's incredible the kind of toxic MLs who get a pass if they get in a good sob story and grovel but let a female character's toxicity manifest in the unforgivable crime of signing someone up for dating sites and she's written off. Her sob story isn't the right one—unforgivable! I appreciate when creators show that not everyone abused in this way turns into a squee adorable character who heroically overcomes it all. And shows that toxicity in a way that isn't "I need to work it out through extremely violent controlling behaviour." I was rolling my eyes through her explanation too but damn these comments made me gather myself quick.
dude ppl don't have to justify a female characters poor actions just bc some ppl glaze toxic mls. your correlation is so poor, her gender aint got nothing to do with her having a silly ass cooerelation (like u have rn) between her neglectful past and her being homophobic lmao. ppl obv are gonna be upset if she is outwardly declaring her homophobia because she wishes she could be as open and free as them. she was being stupidly annoying and thats okay we don't have to sympathize with goofiness just bc shes female. plus theres so many ppl who don't glaze toxic mls i generally see equal comments of ppl disagreeing/agreeing with the toxic ml in question.
I get what you're saying but she also completely ignored her confused grandma leaving the house cause she was busy making those profiles... don't care how sad her backstory is, that's still awful.
True true, the folks point here in the comment is that her tragic past have no correlation or whatsoever with their relationship, and after that, she have the guts to say "i dont support you" whatever IN THEIR FACE. Hella rude and uncalled for. Nobody's not acknowledging her past, we are, its just, whats your oast have to do with you being rude and uncalled for lmao
EXACTLY like her past is sad and undeserved yes but like not an excuse to be homophobic
If you don't agree that gender has anything to do with it fine but this is an established means of analysis. I don't need folx to like her. I don't like her! Unlikeable characters are fine. It's the content and tone of the response that I find frustrating. There are endless essays and books on media and feminist studies examining this sort of thing. Not everyone does it duh but it's a pattern that holds up an entire genre. BL is built on its success even though yes there is criticism of it. The female character who obstructs the couple is a well worn trope.
"She wishes she could be as open and free as them." I guess . She's worried about them being ostracised and isolated because of her own experiences of being abused which is itself an isolating experience (compounded by her own moves to isolate herself it has to be said). Then her grandmother's dementia made her situation more dire. At this point she wants stability in her only community and she's worried this relationship will ruin that. No doubt, general societal homophobia is in the mix somewhere but from her own reaction in this chapter I don't think that's the main engine behind her wacked out behaviour.
This is what I mean. All that fuels so many thoughts here is whether one likes or doesn't like a character and it leads to reductive readings and superficial analysis.
This is the foundation of human psychology. Human beings behave in ways that seem to defy rational behaviour. People being rude, harmful, violent and also nice, reverential to others who have done nothing to deserve it is actually an everyday thing. The question is why? How does it make sense in their mind? The creator has laid out some possible answers here but it's like whatever, this isn't English lit, I'll just cross my fingers and hope this side plot or whatever ends soon and we get back to happy times.
Did she *ignore* her as in she saw her grandmother leave the house herself but made the conscious decision to prioritise being an interfering weirdo? Or did she think her grandmother was safe inside, got absorbed in her stupid antics, and didn't realize anything was wrong until they brought the grandmother home?
In the city where I live it is not uncommon to see police notices on social media for missing elderly people because the family reported it. She needs to be held accountable but it's not the sign of moral failure and bankruptcy some are trying to make it out to be. The grandparent is someone who is used to being independent and doing as they please. Unless you have them under 24 hour surveillance this can and does happen. This is why it takes a family to handle this sort of thing. The primary carer needs support! Sometimes she needs a break (not to be matchmaking people without their consent)! It's not a one person job. Luckily, the community came through for her.
I appreciate that you get what I'm saying otherwise.
No I know what you mean by people automatically hating a female character just for "getting in the way of relationships" in the bl genre in general and sometimes it is very Misgynostically guided but in this case I don't think that applies. She isn't getting any hate for her gender and even for Interfering per ay rather the reasoning behind it. As a queer male myself it's often times were people will justify their homophobia because of their experiences and "love" for the other. And not wanting to be related to someone queer. Not saying she is doing all of the above but she is definitely using her past to excuse blantant homophobia on her part and crossing boundaries. No one evenly wrongfully analyzed her no one denyed her experience it's just the correlation is herself and nothing to do with her backstory. I have had many ppl in my life going through simalrily what she has gone thru and hasn't been or excused homophobia using it. She can want stability and be worried but she is only focusing on herself and not actually caring like she's claiming otherwise she would be worried in reverse for them and not herself. So honestly I just don't get what this particular character has done to tie into the whole unnecessary hate for a female character. If that's not what u were trying to say idk how feminism ties into any of this as she's only getting criticized abt her motives behind her actions.
You explain her actions to me as if *I* am seeking to excuse or justify her actions. I'm not. My stance is about the judgement on her being unnecessarily harsh and superficial and that this is influenced by her gender and the trope the creator wrote her into, in a more substantial way I think, but it's clearly not hitting here. (She didn't spill all of the details of her life in one moment which is realistic to me.)
The trope *itself* is gendered so how can we eliminate her gender as a factor in the responses? It's a part of the trope's equation. We can agree to disagree tho. I appreciate you trying to engage with my points. That doesn't always happen. Thanks!
Okay I see what ur saying yes I do think this troupe tends to be very gendered in a sense of how they portray these characters. Although I cant fully say it is because I've seen this type of writing for both female and male characters. I feel it's kind of lazy writing imo unless very thought out and presented as such. Sorry for explaining things unnecessary and I wasn't suggesting in the second reply that u agreed with her but why others might feel strongly against it.
Kwon had stuff stolen from the store before. So much so that it has become a repeating issue (I think he even accused the single dad of stealing them when they first met but i could be misremembering).The first time we see granny was when she was stealing chocolate from the store, meaning she clearly did it. There's no way the girl wouldn't have known about granny wandering off all those times. You're right, ignored was a bad word to use. She's NEGLECTFUL. Just like her parents.