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This doesn't answer my question but A is definitely NOT the sort of person for kinky stuff like that. You have a problem with him being with his "brother" who has never seen him as a brother for a long time but threesomes are okay for you apparently. Isn't that what they call misplaced priorities? Well, A doesn't have that in him. If you want something fucked up like that, then you must be reading the wrong manhua.
Lol. I hope it's not this brain you use to cross the road because if it is, you are a walking disaster waiting to happen. You have a problem with A being with his adoptive brother who isn't really his brother but a polyamorous relationship is okay by you, knowing very well that everything about A screams the exact opposite? You really are messed up.
Not you acting like threesomes are extremely morally wrong, and incest is perfectly fine.
And i hate the whole "he isn't actually his brother" argument.
He was literally born into his family, is father (although not biological) has been around since before he was born, he was probably in the delivery room as his bio mom pushed him out.
This man LITERALLY can not remember a time when his mom and dad weren't his mom and dad.
If he never got told that he wasn't actually their biological child this would be a whole other argument. Because he never got treated differently or unlovingly by his parents.
Incest means 2 or more blood related humans having a romantic and/or sexual relationship. So technically it's not incest. Is it immoral? Definitely yes. Since as you mentioned, he grew up having A as his brother. Even tho he knew they're not blood related early on, still it's morally not okay. But this is fictional. And a BL. And most people in this community don't really care about morality a lot of the time. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
Threesomes aren't morally wrong, as you say, but can you engage in it? Not many people can actually do it and in what world or Universe does A seem like someone that can do something like that? You have said a lot but you still haven't explained the reason WHY it has to be so. Just because they are good looking, "Oooh a threesome!" Please, spare me.
Do you realize how emotional A is and how fucked up it would be for him to do something like that? It isn't even in his character.
As I said, if you have a problem with A being with his adopted brother, why are you okay with a threesome with strangers he doesn't even know? If the adoptive brother was oh-so-goodlooking, you people would be the first to ship him with A.
1. i love threesomes, i think they are fucking awesome and i would very much like to be sandwiched between 2 hot man.
2. A doesn't have to have a threesome or a romantic/ sexual relationship with anyone (i'd actually prefer it that way). but if he did have one, anyone, and i mean ANYONE would be a better option than his brother.
3. the brother is in fact hot, (hotter than the actor dudes, i think). he would be a great support character if it wasn't for the incest.
4. A is not a child or some delicate flower. he will not be traumatized for life if he has a one night stand, it's not a big deal. people have sex, because sex feels good, there's nothing weird, bad or "fucked up" about it.
you obviously have a very particular view about A's character (a head cannon tbh) and that's perfectly fine. everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but at the end of the day, forcing an opinion on others, just because you it's the correct one, is never ok, and people WILL be mad and fight back.
also....this has gotten to a point where even my brother (who is completely against drugs, alcohol, smoking, hates loud music and partying) is even calling you an "out dated puritan, with Victorian standards"
so there's that. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
Lol. You AND your brother make me laugh. I honestly am too tired to keep repeating myself and if you let my sentiments go over your head, that's on you, not me. I can't keep spoon-feeding anyone common sense.
But I'm just going to address some things very quickly and then I'm done. I apologize in advance if it gets too long. I promise this is the last you'll hear from me.
1. This isn't even about having sex because "sex feels good", like you say. This sounds like the sort of notion only a child or a virgin might have. You act like sex is like a walk in park for everyone just because it is the same for you, but in reality, it isn't.
You claim to love threesomes but you still haven't even engaged in it, which still makes it a fantasy. I fantasize about having threesomes as well but I would think twice before doing it because it might turn out to be a terrible experience at the end of the day if you do it with the wrong people.
"I want to do it because "sex feels good" is cavemen's talk or just ignorant rambling because sometimes, it actually doesn't feel good with the wrong person or even the right person too, especially if you are on the receiving end. Yeah. That happens. You also need to have the heart for it and denying that doesn't change anything. A lot more people would be engaging in orgies, threesomes and polyamorous relationships if it's only about the pleasure you feel when doing it.
I would prefer if A had been shipped with anyone else but his brother, but not with any random person, just because.
4. You seem to have misconstrued my meaning but as I said, I don't like to repeat myself so I'm only going to say this once more and it's up to you to understand it or leave it.
I don't need to have a preconceived idea of A's character or heat cannon as you so charmingly put it, because the author ALREADY has done enough justice to his character for us to know the sort of person he is. He is not fragile, yes, but he also doesn't like to be involved in unnecessary drama as we have all witnessed enough times. Those two would be too chaotic to handle.
If you can't handle his relationship with his brother, what makes you think you can handle threesomes with two strangers he barely even knows, especially since they are all popular in the showbiz? Have you thought about it on a grand scale?
You have said quite a lot but you still haven't told me WHY it is necessary for him to have a threesome with those guys. The only reason why anyone would hold such an opinion after reading this manhua is because they are just smut-crazy fans who once they see a good looking character the next thing in their head is "Oooh, have sex!" "Oooh, a threesome!" "Oooh, an orgy!" How exactly does this advance the plot in anyway? There are enough hentai mangas with little or no plotline to help feed those fantasies. Read them.
On the issue of having an opinion, it's nice that you are fighting for people's right to an opinion, but there's such a thing as having a stupid or dangerous opinion. Whether you want to fight back or not is entirely up to you but that doesn't make it any less stupid. I also had my opinion and decided to share it.
BL characters are not pawns for you to live your dark, twisted fantasies through them. It might be fiction, but the emotions you feel when reading them are real. That's why you laugh when you read something funny and cry when something bad happens to a character you love.
You can call me whatever you like, but I just like to critically analyze things because life is in fact, not a bed or roses for everyone like you might think. Sue me.
Oh, by the way, tell your brother I think he makes a moonless night look bright and if you share the same sentiments as he does, then I believe that a brain-eating bacteria is starving in your skull too.
Toodles.
It's not even just the pseudo incest but the brother has creepy, obsessive behavior. That's a no for me. Anyway, I never even took the op as being serious. As in....not something they actually wished to see happen in the story. So watching the turn this took was something else.
I get the feeling that a lot of stuff like this happens from having a wide range of ages interacting together.
exactly, it's really not that sirius, there's nothing we say that will change the story. but yeah, even aside from the incest, logistically A and his brother are just a really bad combo.
there's the obsessiveness, the lying, the stalker-ish behavior, the way he is forcing himself on A when he is very clearly not interested and uncomfortable.
even if they got together they still have the same parents, and if they break up, then he'll just end up standing there with his dick in his hand.
breakup songs to cry to lmfao so real for that