
I wish we got more thought bubbles from her. One minute she’s shitting herself and then the next she’s standing confidently against her abusers- at least if there was a thought bubble that said: “compared to those demons father isn’t scary at all” then the character development could progress more smoothly. It feels too sudden as it is. I guess I’m just annoyed at the writing and portrayal.

I see it as how I dealed with my abusers. One moment you absolutely hate yourself and are terrified, the next you put up a cold wall by separating yourself from any emotion or thoughts other than what's needed for your "survival". People who do this have a warped fight or flight response so they can be strong and "fight", in social situations. Take it from me, I did it for many years!

Oh nah, no offense taken. Just offering another point of view :) it makes total sense to me how she can go so quick from one thing to the other. It was always hard to keep the wall so I broke alot of the times I thought no one could see my face. Then when I looked back up I'd be the picture of calm. It's a magic I wish no one ever had to learn

I'm not censoring my swearwords for this. That's so fucking shitty. We all hated him before but holy shit. Poor dude. I thought this story would be light hearted but thats fucking twisted. Jeez...
If anyone has faced abuse come out and say it. Do it anonymously if you have to, but get it out. Don't think that you're alone and helpless, someone will help if you ask for it.

BRO you’re gonna traumatise the kid wtf lmfao

Honestly this is the worst advice anyone can give you so I say do the exact opposite of what I'm telling you. It honestly depends on the child you should be more stern with some then others depends on their character. Even if they're bad kids don't let them forget you still love them because kids who always get in trouble tend to think that it's becuase they are just not loved when that's not the case in fact you're only doing it becuase you care about them. Hitting is never a good solution you might think it is but in the long run its not. Kids aren't dumb so don't underestimate them.

Be stern. Best if the kid gets sent to boarding or is taken care of by other people for a bit. A lot of the problem will lie with parenting, eg if the parents don’t scold enough they tend to be spoiled. Not getting enough experience with people will also make them entitled. I think sports camps are great, esp with a tough coach haha. And having to put up with kids more annoying than them are great too.
Some more constructive ways to get them to grow up is giving them some kind of responsibility. Like taking care of an animal, or asking them to do something and saying: hey can I trust you to do a good job of this?
Or, if they have something they are passionate about give them the opportunity to work for it.

Based on my own experience (i have 2 spoiled nieces) i just ignore them when they throw a fit/ tantrum. And when they eventually get tired and settle down, that's where I talk to them. I start by saying what they did wrong, and then proceed to tell them what's the right thing to do/explain the situation in a calm manner. Also set limits don't give them what they want cuz they cried.

The problem with the contract relationship trope is that its a contract. You have terms and you can’t break them.
Why wouldn’t you just ask the guy for a real relationship, then if you get rejected suggest the contract.
At least in a real relationship there isn’t that much you have to give, a bit of good acting and bam free affection.
They don’t make a good couple, white hair and dan i.
BLUE HAIR OTP FOR LIFE TT-TT
Fr they set that up from the beginning, if it weren’t for the misunderstandings they’d be together already. Ugh I’m so mad.
dani and blue hair doesn't work well i think. they kept having misunderstandings and fights from the start. their communication is off. silver hair understands dani better
Half the misunderstandings aren’t even their fault, and the other half is all on Dan i because she just assumes they don’t like her that way. It’s so annoyinggg