What’s with the Japanese and their obsession with dating high schoolers…
Literally turned 20 yesterday and I my response to the last slide would be to walk away and not look back tf
LITERALLY IM SO TIRED FORBID U BRING THIS UP BC MFS GET SO PISSY ABT IT
i did not read the first text oops technically all genres do this no matter where they’re from unfortunately saw a manhua with a 14 y/o and 17 y/o and ppl defending it and sighed
be so fr. he's 18.
what are we talking abt
I'm referring to the og comment. the char is 18. titles with a purpose to signify maturity such as high schooler stop bearing meaning after 17.
the developmental state of the brain progresses little from the age of 17 till 18, and is completed by 22 max. people are not babies nor immature at 17-18, they're near completion. only inexperienced. therefore be it 17 or 18 dating an adult near 21-22 is A-okay! i rest my case.
below 17 is not okay, because brain development is lacking. why would an adult want to date a biologically incomplete human incapable of being fully aware of their decisions? of fathoming the world from all types of viewpoints and most importantly understanding the concept of self?
but let's not repeat ourselves since i just saw your response to me on another comment.
that was before this one so Ya
honestly i feel like this is more of an opinion, it can still come off morally weird no matter what you say how the brain works. a 22 y/o romantically and sexually getting in a relationship with a 17 year old is weird dudeee. i dont rlly get this argument either why can’t a 22 year old like mfs around their age and not high schoolers ? dunno im 17 rn and i think its insane
you keep bringing up the brain to defend it like it doesn’t take away the fact there is still a gap no matter how you view it as. someone who can legally drink getting it on with a high schooler 17> or someone who just turned 18 is gross.
what? of course brain developmemt can justify it. the whole discourse about age gaps around the ages of 17-22 is based on brain development. that is the fundamental difference between an adult and a child and why it is considered illegal to be romantically interested in a child and an adolescent as an adult... it's not the age gap that's the issue, lol..
a legal adult is considered to be 18 but actual adulthood occurs at 22. 18 yos can drink legally and you act like adolescents never drink. we aren't talking about how things should be, but how they are. alas, drinking habits play no role in this and are utterly irrelevant. if you think it's gross without any solid ground to base it off and just pin it on opinions (it's not a matter of opinions in this case), sorry to hear, but that's not how this matter should be dealt with.
not really…there’s still a gap between a 17 y/o and 22 year old and neither share the same maturity. clearly we don’t share the same laws because it’s illegal where i’m from continue liking high schoolers then dude idk what u want me to say to you
apparently there's a maturity difference between us as well, considering you assume i am actually fond of this age difference, even though i merely stated that it's justifiable. and.. i guess the sensible thing to do according to you is to limit myself to high schoolers since we're a year apart, lol.
no matter how old you are, in the end it's the one who was more interested in assessing truths and indulged in introspection, the one who was willing to escape the binds of what is considered to be normality, rather than to hide behind a faulty law with countless of variables of influence, who is most mature. what i mean to say by this extended, mildly passive aggressive ramble is that maturity is an expansive concept, which isn't limited to age (biological development) and experience, but heavily touches upon the term "effort" and many more too.
i expect nothing of you to tell me. you initiated this conversation with me, i am merely responding accordingly.
ouchiiiie that hurt my heart…trust me i will be back i am at work but TRUST you will be getting a big heartfelt response just wait for me when i am off expect IT
are you dating anyone is ur partner 22 do you just have a thing for 22y/os what is it they’re not even allat to defend but whatever each to their own I WILL BE BACK
i await your return. i am 18 and single, it is no necessity to have someone like this in my life to advocate for what i consider normal and abnormal. let my words not affect your mood at work, good luck with it. i will probably be off to bed because it's late.
oh yeah YOU BETTER BE BACK! it's about to go down in post school debate class activities.
hi babe i’m not off work but it’s soooo slow so i’m back did u wait for meeee ;3; work was so fun thank u babycakes you didn’t ruin my mood. hope ur sleeping well and dreaming of me ^_^
the primary concerns with a 22-year-old dating a 17-year-old often center around maturity differences and legal considerations. At 17, individuals are generally still in their teenage years and may have different life experiences, emotional development, and perspectives compared to a 22-year-old, who is typically more established in adulthood. this disparity can lead to an imbalance.
additionally, a 17-year-old is typically still in high school and may be undergoing significant emotional and cognitive development. In contrast, a 22-year-old is likely to have completed higher education or started a career, leading to greater life experience and maturity. although that itself is hard to speak for every person out there, it isn’t necessarily wrong. but it is silly to say a 17 year old can uphold more if not the same maturity as someone who’s 22 imo….unless there is a reason behind the lack of development, it just sounds like an excuse seriouslyyyy.
ugh i was never in debate they tried and i never showed need to go back immediately
By the time someone turns 22 they've developed the full capability to grow to be mature but that doesn't necessarily mean they are or that they make this choice. as i've mentioned before, there is no real major development during the transition from 17 to 18, which is considered to be the legal coming of age. but rather than remaining
in theory let's consider how many "mature and experienced in life" people, especially troubled old men have induldged in femicides because they couldn't reason with themselves or understand the capacity of their emotions, although their brain is developed. in this sense, yes, it's very possible a 17yo upholds the same maturity as a 22yo (just not biological). because maturity is, again, a wide spectrum. a 17 yo could have been working part time for the longest time and have been gaining experience in socialising, behaving themselves, understanding social cues and etiquette, acknowledging the importance of cooperation, learning to cooperate. they could have had a horrid familial environment and grown familiar with the implications of various physical and mental health conditions. learnt to deal with them, enhanced their observational skills and dealt with injustice. etc.
due to the uncertainty of whether someone is willing to embrace their maturity, we are obliged to consider other aspects, dependent on each person. we have to take a closer look and include the circumstances and an individual's behaviour in our perception. insisting on speaking titles is foolish when we've got the facts before our eyes, aka dismissing a person's struggle to build their character and love is foolish. we act like people in their late teens all are dependent infants while willingly staying under the notion that times are still the same and aren't vastly progressing, while young adults enter a completely different dimension. and that's simply not true.
ya still will never make sense to me and i do think 22 year olds should stay away from high schoolers thank u
i see, figures you never went to debate classes. would have been useful to you. have a good rest of the day.
well yeah u took forever to reply bruh edging me on truly and then i got bored and you sent a long paragraph and it’s like 7am and i just really don’t care that much #sorry
omg dude have u seen 10 things i hate abt u omggg i watched it yesterday so good really so good
i had to put some thought into my answer.. is 10 things i hate abt you a comedy? im not really fond of the genre.but ill check it out.
ur my soulmate i know you are IT IS SOO good. it’s a romance abt an older girl and her younger sister where this guy likes the little sister but she can’t date unless her older sister does
do you have instagram if i asked for your instagram would u give it to me bats my eyelashes repeatedly *_*
It had a pretty okay concept, but honestly ruined by mid storytelling and choppy dialogue . They’ve clearly tried to do something different with more of an explanation on the actual reincarnation but it’s honestly not explained that well, and the references to it also being the plot of a Novel are simultaneously forced and unclear. Also makes me lol at how many tropes they’ve crammed in here despite trying to be different (maybe that’s mean lol)
Read if you’re bored ig - dropped at ch15
Anyone know where I can read the rest of this online for free? Lmk
its on pocketcomics.com for free its complete
nvm its not completed or free sadly :(
Ty anyway
This guy reminds me of that one guy from a jubilee video that said it would take him like a couple months to get into a new relationship if his gf died
So she was kicked out of a rich family and her birth family are even richer ? Confused.. and the pink haired girl is the actual daughter to her fake family? Then why isn’t she going back to them ? Idk
She’s probably trying to leach off of them knowing that they have more money
Very true, thx