
does any one now if there is a yaoi that has the same relationship dynamic as the second couple of 19 days.

I'm assuming you're asking for tropes where one teases the other and the other gets annoyed and denies feelings but also kinda likes him, the manhwas I'm recommending aren't exactly like this but they do kinda follow this trope at some point, basically it's that both aren't lovey dovey happy couple types but more of push and pull
Monday's Saviour
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/monday_saviour/
Blaze out
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/blaze_out/
Dead man switch
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dead_man_switch/
Sunday's consolation
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sunday_s_consolation/
Dreadful Night
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dreadful_night/
Payback
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/payback_1/
Park Hanhoo's Manager
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/park_hanhoo_s_manager/

can anyone recommend there favourite smut manga whit lake really weird and hard core kinks

My moment to shine.
If you can't find them on here they'll be on b a t o
SM Gokko
Ichimai Goshi Fetish
Junai Drop Out
I am Your Pavlov Dog
Nanshoku Injou Hitsugi
When You Wake Up Tomorrow
A Story About That Kind of Desire
Boy Meets Innocence
Abaite, Sono Me de
Shasei Kanri Dou Deshou
Tumi wo oka si ta syuudouzyo ha daizya no mamono ni zange suru (not a kink in the manga but he has 2 dicks.)
Femdoms
The playboy senpai with his experience of a hundred seems to have a talent for being a female
Micro [femdom] { UNCENSORED }
Tsukiko-san wants to tease her younger husband
The girl I had my eyes on at a new student party was a dominant top with a cold attitude.
Review of female entertainment by Rui, an aggressive girl (Superlative love. ~A night drowned in sexual desire with a gorgeous beast~)
The Story of Being Embraced by a Handsome Girlfriend
Miyoshi wants to make a Younger Dog Cry
Book x Tea
Be honest with me, Kyo - Older girlfriend wants to tease her virgin boyfriend
Sweet Suffering
The Queen Who Disappeared
Tonight I Will Have the Carnivorous Boy Yuki-kun
Strap-on Girl and Bitch Boy
Pitiful is Adorable
Ukedan (Yoshiaki) Governess
[Ukedan (Yoshiaki)] 41-sai Doutei Hishojo na Otto wa Konya mo Tsuma ni Aisareru
Otto wa Shimakaze-kun 30-sai
Betise de ROSE
Tsukiko-san wants to tease her younger husband
Life of the Tachibana's ~ The Wife Can't Help but Dote on Her Husband! ~
Make Love Rhapsody
Kukkoro Knight ☆ ~The holy knight wears black armor~

Can someone please recommend a yaoi where the uke/sub thinks their a same/dom but then gets turned

Also this (if i rememer correctly)
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ore_dake_mi_nai_to_xx_shichau_zo/

So this might be a bit weird of a request. But I’ve always wanted to help make a manga but I’m not really good at drawing neither am I very confident in my writing ability so if anybody who’s making a manga wants help with world building, character design help coming up with a story and proofreading or anything else i’d love to help
just read the now chapter of "hit on buy a kinky guy" where they use gauze covered in lube and wonder if any one has any recensions were it is used in other youi
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/if_i_have_a_chance_i_want_to_warp_my_boyfriend_s_fetishes/
It's not yaoi but straight, but it's everything I ever wanted of a kinky relationship story