I really hope we get to flush out all those negative comments with positive ones.
Like I get it, you might not like the side couples' story but cmon, complaining about it is no use.
Instead just learn to skip when those moments come if it makes you uncomfortable and focus on the adorable he-feng family plot..
As for me I just turn off my brain and go along for the ride since it's just fiction after all.. I'd definitely be a little weirded out if it happened irl but cmon.. it's a story.