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I thought first time or sex wasn’t much of a big deal until mine came, It hurts like hell bro I don’t even want to imagine, I bled so much when the hymn broke it hurt like omg, immediately stopped and for the second time as well I bled so much and it still hurt like hell how the hell people do this
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your hymen actually isn’t supposed to break, that’s a myth. it’s supposed to stretch, make sure you finger yourself/they finger you beforehand to ready yourself. use lots of lube too, even if you think you’re wet enough, its always better to go overboard and be safe. it’ll hurt a lot less! I’ve done it a few times and never bled, it has still hurt a bit at the start for me at times but I also have vaginimus so it might’ve been a mental thing.
Point is, don’t skip on the foreplay!! don’t take loser dick who won’t get you ready before sticking it in either!!!
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My first time didn't hurt at all because the dude spent a fat minute giving me head LMAO. Foreplay like fingering, head or even just making out and grinding on each other lets your kitty self lubricate and makes the whole experience so much better. Someone who actually cares about you and your experience will spend time on foreplay or listen to what YOU like and do it.
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It hurt less than I expected but maybe because he didn't properly entered with the first and second time we had intercourse. It really is important that you're also turn on, that is why foreplay is important so you can be properly "wet" it won't hurt after that. Or if you have a problem making yourself wet, using lube will help.
If your guy that straight up shoving into you with getting you wet. Educate him if he doesn't listen just run away from him.
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Sex shouldn't hurt nor should there be bleeding.
If you do bleed it's probably a lubrication issue.
Nothing good ole lube can't solve. Plus foreplay is essential to get you into the mood and to relax you a bit get you used to things aswell if you aren't experienced. So 3 main things the right partner foreplay and lube ( condoms are a must mandatory) (and don't use lubed condoms if you are already using lube since it might cause tearing in the condoms and also the type of lubes differs so find what works best for you and the type of condoms you use) happy sexing
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