Sineya's Topics (60)

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Agree! More manly XD and with his hair up, too!

same xx

Gosh. Me too. I so love the uke.

The uke had already been in love with the seme but he didn't realize true the rape and kid napping was totally wrong for him to do but that can be because of some phycolgical problem and obsessions he has toward the uke (￣ε(#￣)Σ

it's yaoi world , world of fantsy where rape = uncontrolable love , actually in real life the rapist don't hold any love for their victims that's why rape is so horrifiing and trumatizing to the victim , I don't think their is any victim of rape who would ever fall for their rapist , their was some decmontated incidence when the kidnaped victim fall for the kidnapper but I think it's physoclogical condition called syndorm something I forget , but it does happen but it's not really love .. sorry for the bad english!

Yeah, it's called Stockholm Syndrome. In order to protect itself, the victim's brain convinces them that the abuser is right and that the victim loves them. It does happen in real life ('~')

human brain is so weird to be honest .. I wonder if animals would feel the same way about their attackers like would deer fell in love with tiger that trying to eat it , this just seem so unlikely to happen in animal kingdom , so humans are kind weird .

Hold on. Not so fast!

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/5819575_%27Stockholm_syndrome%27_Psychiatric_diagnosis_or_urban_myth

http://www.cityuniversity.ca/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Stockholm-Syndrome-poster-rev1.pdf

Brief paraphrase: In the most infamous case of Stockholm Syndrome, the case which gave the syndrome its actual name, Nils Bejerot, the psychiatrist and criminologist who coined the term never even bothered to interview the subject, Kristin Enmark. Kristen's behaviour was calculated to minimize harm to the other hostages in a volatile situation, not to capitulate to her captor.

Stockholm Syndrome is a nasty little term used to diminish agency in abused and violated women (mainly) by implying that they go along with the abuse because they "love" the abuser, when there is more often a toxic cocktail of circumstances locking them into the abusive relationship.

The APA and other credible psychiatric organizations refuse to validate it as a mental health condition. In other words, misogynistic, paternalistic, made-up bullshit.

If your religion on prevents you from believing in science, then the Abrahamic-faith-based equivalent would be the Biblical story of Esther.

Stockholm syndrome is far from falling in love with the rapist. It is situation where the victim who is held capture form bonding or show some kind or nice gesture to it's captor to trick them so the victim can get away / run away. It's far from falling in love.

It's not always about flight, though. Mostly it's a harm reduction strategy.

Yeah something like that. Strategy. Sorry I confused to put it into the right word. What I know it's strategy to perform act they are in good term so the victim can get away. Or reduce the harm like abuse etc

Exactly. The basis of the relationship is covertly transactional. The mental conditions of the victim are calculation and hypervigilance. The emotions, if they even exist under such acute focus, are anxiety and fear. The overall state bears a closer affiliation with PTSD than anything else, except that the trauma is happening in real time. It's certainly not love.

Well said

Thx. That's real life, not yaoi. In yaoi, the implicit attraction exists prior to the conflict, but circumstances (like a marital engagement to the boss' daughter) prevent the relationship from proceeding naturally, so the characters are driven to irrational extremes until love resolves all of it. It couldn't be further from reality ... unless they incorporated bug-eyed aliens dropping down on their heads to feast on human flesh ... So I guess it could be further from reality.

Hahaha that's true

Thank you!