
i can understand the brother's "advice" but him and their parents are also being selfish for asking namu to live up to their expectations in the name of filial piety. if the society, or at least the friends and family, were accepting of ppl from lgbt+ community, they'd be living normal lives with hardships and happy moments just like anyone else.
it's the consent that makes things enjoyable... it has to be bc i don't think ppl would feel turned on if some rando hit them ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭