
that’s really complicated and i relate at some level but the way he handled it is all wrong like u should never ever enter a relationship with someone without being honest with them .. maybe they can stay friends or sumn but he definitely needs to leave her alone ”romantically” and find someone more likeminded.. also how tf can some strangers hear that and be like ”take him back !!” when he literally just confirmed that he never loved her romantically and never will

im at chapter 18 and im so annoyed that she lied about who she was to the prince, like she is so much smarter than that and she should know that the lie would come out sooner rather than later (especially at once like it was now cuz the prince isn’t stupid) sigh.. im gonna keep reading this but yah definitely annoyed at the fl for that

okay i know yall are mad at him but u must remember that he is an emperor and he needs an heir, and hurting an emperor ESPECIALLY giving him an scar is an immediately death sentence AND not having any concubines at all is almost unheard of, and she got kinda crazy when it was brought up and literally attacked him, they’re both at fault for sure but he literally did not have a choice with the role he has and the rules of that time. i do still hope that she’ll die and he will be completely and utterly emotionally destroyed cuz he did not treat her well at all after the incident but still we need to understand, i truly think this could all have been changed if they communicated more before the incident and if the mother didn’t intervene like she did (and most probably did something so fl couldn’t get pregnant) but yah sorry for long rant but historically and realistically this one makes complete sense <3

I think we're underestimating how much power an emperor could have, but in these circumstances doesn't have. He could've EASILY blamed it on another person or training.
However, it seems the Empress Dowager has the ultimate power in this dynamic. The Emperor can't even decide to stay with the FL for a few days longer and needs to find legitimate sounding excuses to try to get his way...

yup exactly!! Usually the empress dowager still holds a lot of power since she is the mom of the emperor and has been together and sometimes ruled with the previous emperor. He already went against her for years when he didn’t have concubines cuz he loved fl but when it has been that long and no baby, he can’t really come with an excuse anymore.
but still want to see him suffer ofc cuz he as said did not handle things in the best way <3
someone pls take over this !! it’s so cute :((