Honestly, if there’s going to be romance between different species here, it’ll be between Theo and Iona only and no one else. Forgetting the fact that Theo’s a cat and Iona’s a hamster(?). Their interactions and reactions to each other is just… (ノ≧∇≦)ノ
I just really like their dynamics. I know their kind of dynamics exist. I just can’t think of an example.
Also, I just don’t get wanting Yayul to be the ML. Yes, he’s a different person from the Yayul in the previous timeline. And it’s not fair to hold it against him. But it is all thanks to Yeon that Yayul is what he is now. And Yeon took him in, with the intention of avoiding her fate of being killed by him again in the future.
And sure. She might even consider him a friend of hers now, as they formed a bond while staying together. She might even think that the Yayul she knows now is a different person from the Yayul she knew from the previous timeline.
But the fact that Yeon remembers everything, up until the moment of her death. I just don’t see her being romantically involved with Yayul ever.
I know that most of us are here for the father and daughter’s wholesome bonding moments. But I think that we’re forgetting the fact that they’re basically strangers before her regression.
Yeon’s father was absent in her life in the previous timeline. She needed to be regressed, for her to be the one to take the initiative to reach out to her father. For them to have the relationship that they have now. From what I remember, they both thought that the other person hated them.
As a parent, Yeon’s father should’ve taken the first step to communicate with her, even if he thinks that his daughter hates her. At least talk to her first, before making any conclusions. So that they can resolve any misunderstandings or problems they have with each other. He should’ve also shown Yeon that there is someone in their household that she can trust. Someone that can make her feel comfortable, safe, and loved.
I’m not going to blame Yeon’s father too much. As the current him is up there when it comes to being a father in a father and daughter manhwa. I just think that he doesn’t know how to be a good parent, or be a parent just in general before. But I think that it’s also a given to interact with your child. And show and make them feel that you care as a parent.
I don’t know what was my point of writing all of this. I guess that it’s the parents’ job to guide and be present, more so in their child’s early life. Good for Yeon and his father to have the chance to fix their relationship. But we don’t have that kind of opportunity in real life. We just regret and only think of “what if” when it’s too late.
Agreed. And i feel that way abt a lot of dads/parents in these manhwas. And i always consider that these are popular bc;
Its common for people <esp asian counties> to think that if they were just a better child it would change their parents for the better. Its common for them to shoulder the burden of emotion neglect and generational trauma. These stories are a reflection of those experience and the happy family dynamic theyre writing that are a result of the kid taking on those same burdens are what the writers, and many ppl who go through that, wish they were rewarded with for carrying that heavy load. It is simply that they dont understand true unconditional love.
I think its never adressed that the parent was neglectful bc a lot of asian countries and many ppl in western countries still dont like to hold parents accountable because theyre stuck in the 'they did their best' mindset. They think that ignorance of a situation is a good reason and an excuse for neglect.
'I will Master this Family' shows a pretty good example of a parent doing their absolute best and it being the environment and situation that led to ruin.
'Karina's Last Days' is a great example of parents having to accept accountability for their ignorance and neglect.
Honestly had they just allowed the MC to feel some resentment and her sorting those feeling, maybe her having a tiny heart to heart with her dad abt how he makes her feel lonely even though she knows he is trying to save her, would add so much depth alone. Bc he was gone for a good reason but that doesnt take away the hurt he unintentionally caused.
Thats some of my thoughts, sorry its so long. (´*`)
This story’s piece of shit of a ML is the root of all the misunderstandings.
From the “oh-so-pitiful” blonde bitch being delusional, because the ML didn’t set up boundaries even after being in a relationship with the MC. To making the MC feel like a substitute, because the ML always has the time whenever the blonde bitch needs him.
Thinking about how the ML’s friends who are just as shitty as him badmouths and mocks the MC on a daily basis. And him not doing anything to stop them. The ML ignored the MC even after his “death”. Then he saw a “lookalike” of the MC and started harassing the said lookalike because he believes that he is the MC.
But why though? He did not care about the MC before, and now he suddenly do? You’re going to make us believe that he loves the MC all this time, and everything was just a misunderstanding.
He didn’t even give a reason for why he just watched and let his fucking friends treat the MC like trash. He only managed to give the MC some of the most stupid excuses for everything else.
What did the MC see in the ML in the first place? He looks like shit, his personality is shit, his friends are shit, him trying to get back with the MC is shit, his excuses are shit, everything about him is shit. Like give me something good about him besides being rich…
Crickets.
Is it bad that I am all for the uncle destroying the MC’s family. Like I’m rooting for the uncle more than the MC at this point. Because I get where the uncle is coming from, and I don’t mind seeing the family’s downfall. Screw the brother, no character redemption for the twins (or whatever they are supposed to be) and let them be shitty as they are, and just death to all the people who made the uncle the way he is right now.
But for the sake of the MC who deserves all the good things and happiness in his second life, the family needs a major reformation. I don’t know how, but they really need it because look at what the family did to the uncle. I guess remove the elders first, and give them the chop? Idk
What? The twins are fine. They showed more growth and empathy than many adults. The nuclear family is fine. It's the family council and the uncle's dad that are scum. If he was just wiping them out, would be a big fan, but there's no way to rationalize him going full zealot and sacrificing thousands of people for his depressing religion (since accoreing to him, he's not the sort to seek revenge and us all about that where-fate-takes-me life). I can't wait to see the mom though
Do we really need an ML though? It might just be me, but I find it hard to see that Yayul kid to be the ML because he killed the MC before. I know that he hasn’t done it yet in this timeline. And he’s already becoming a different person to what he used to be, thanks to the MC’s influence. But to be romantically involved with the person who killed you is… Why?
Also, that bratty little bitch as an ML is another reason to not have one at all. People can change, but he’s being annoying since he appeared, so no. I love him becoming a slave to his feelings for MC, and being humbled real bad though. Lol
The blonde kid. I don’t really remember much about him. What is he like again?
He's a kid with abviously high expectation of him and with a weir sens of selfworth.
I'm pretty sure he'll soften or became more respectful, understand power comes in many different thing.
Give him time.
For now, he's not really a red flag more a orange one. He still have time to stop his bad behavior and become a green flag similar to the MC's father.
What kind of bullshit is he spouting now? His reasons are so stupid, that it sounds like he just made it up on the spot without thought. Who would even believe that nonsense, even if that’s true? Well, the author will make the MC accept that shit, so there’s one.
Okay, he claims not to know how to love. So what? Why can’t he try to at least care more for MC, rather than focusing his attention to that sickly blonde bitch. Yes, he saved your life or whatever (if that is even true), but you have a lover, and you should know where to draw the line to not have any misunderstandings. But I’m expecting too much from a ML in a BL manhua.
Also, what’s with the blindfold and his reason for it? I can maybe understand the “scared of kissing”, but blindfold, really?
What’s up with BL manhua authors and their love for this kind of stories? They love to make the MC miserable, and they especially love to give trashy MLs redemption that they don’t deserve. Is there a big audience for this type of “genre” for them to be making this shit left and right? Just curious.
Cedric finally made an appearance once again! I think that most of us agree that he should be the ML. It’s either him, or no one at all. He’s everything you want in a ML, so why not him instead.
And quite honestly, I really like the idea of the duke and the crown prince ending up together. I’d like to see how toxic they can be to each other. Imagining that they’re always fighting for domination is kinda hot, ngl. Lol
I just can’t take those so-called knights (and the church) seriously. They try to act all high and mighty, but they always end up looking like a bunch of fools.
Like that one knight from the previous dungeon. He really thought that he did something. Do they really think that they are all that just because they’re from the church?
Now, they wanted some brief explanation and precautions before entering the dungeon. Ailette tells them to just be quiet when they enter, and this blonde shit shouted as soon as they arrived. (I know his reaction is valid. I’m just hating on him and the knights because they suck. Along with the people that I’ve seen from the church.)
The only decent people from the church along Terry, are his friends and the cardinal grandmother. Is there anyone I forgot?