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Sanjisonegai May 16, 2021 6:24 pm

I have a guy friend who just came out to me and he’s still very insecure about his sexuality and still lowkey has internalized homophobia that he has to deal with.
And i recommended him some bls to read like here u are and sign, books that he can learn from and relate to
So he can see representation of gay relationships and feel more comfortable with himself but
unfortunately he’s not fluent in english

And rn he doesnt want to read bls to improve his english he wants to understand and comprehend everything and thats why i want to know if yall know where he can read bls in arabic

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 6:27 pm

    I'll let uk if I find any

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 6:27 pm

    But you can maybe try to translate them using apps and other things

    Sanjisonegai May 16, 2021 6:29 pm
    I'll let uk if I find any Gloomy

    Thank you so much
    I looked for a while but i only found like 5 bls translated on wattapad and they only had a few chapters
    Any help will be appreciated thankies

    Sanjisonegai May 16, 2021 6:30 pm
    But you can maybe try to translate them using apps and other things Gloomy

    Which apps
    Hmmm thats a good idea i can try to translate them for him

    drat May 16, 2021 6:42 pm

    I understand your intentions are borne of good will and commend you for it, but I hope you also recognize that a lot of BLs are really harmful/toxic (unfortunately, rape and abuse is frequently romanticized), and that they might not be the best vehicle to help him feel comfortable with his identity. I hope you take care in what you recommend to him. I'm sure he'll be looking for stories centered around gay identity and romance, sp I think it's advisable to tell him that not everything he reads in mangas esp will be a reasonable reflection of irl gay identity and conduct. All the best to your friend and you.

    Sanjisonegai May 16, 2021 6:56 pm
    I understand your intentions are borne of good will and commend you for it, but I hope you also recognize that a lot of BLs are really harmful/toxic (unfortunately, rape and abuse is frequently romanticized), a... drat

    Yes im fully aware of how toxic some bls can be (most of them actually), and im doing my best to recommend him the safest ones.
    thank you so much for mentioning this,
    And i would love if you can recommend me other types of media that he can consume to help him with accepting his identity that are safer and less toxic.

    drat May 16, 2021 7:07 pm
    Yes im fully aware of how toxic some bls can be (most of them actually), and im doing my best to recommend him the safest ones. thank you so much for mentioning this,And i would love if you can recommend me oth... Sanjisonegai

    I do have a plethora of things I could recommend (books. shows, movies) from across multiple cultural BGs, but I'm not sure if they are available in Arabic. Give me sometime and I'll get back to you if that's alright?

    Sanjisonegai May 16, 2021 7:39 pm
    I do have a plethora of things I could recommend (books. shows, movies) from across multiple cultural BGs, but I'm not sure if they are available in Arabic. Give me sometime and I'll get back to you if that's a... drat

    Sure, ill wait im grateful you’re willing to help.
    And when it comes to shows and movies please just recommend them to me, we know where we can find them in arabic.
    But books are different.
    And thank you for your time.

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 8:06 pm

    You probably do have to keep track of which ones he reads though. Coz like that one person said, some of them are toxic and romanticize relationships that shouldn't be. Which can portray mlm in a bad way. If you need some recommendations that actually portray mlm in a relationship manner I have a few good one's that are fluffy and realistic. I have to see if the apps I'm thinking of have them but google isn't the best but you can surely try to translate photos and translate them to Arabic

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 8:06 pm

    Realistic manner*

    Sanjisonegai May 16, 2021 8:18 pm
    You probably do have to keep track of which ones he reads though. Coz like that one person said, some of them are toxic and romanticize relationships that shouldn't be. Which can portray mlm in a bad way. If yo... Gloomy

    I fully understand what you mean and i would love some extra help and recommendations.
    Since im the only person who he comes to for advice and questions since i am the only other gay friend he has i want to make sure he gets as much positive support he needs.

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 8:23 pm
    I fully understand what you mean and i would love some extra help and recommendations.Since im the only person who he comes to for advice and questions since i am the only other gay friend he has i want to make... Sanjisonegai

    Very happy ur helping him through this. It can be rough but yeah I will give see rec

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 8:24 pm

    Give some rec*

    Gloomy May 16, 2021 8:25 pm

    Sadly the platform I just thought of has around 10 languages besides Arabic

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