The only thing I can tell you is, be patient and when she explodes, no matter how small the problem, do not answer her and let her have her tantrums alone, then take a day to talk peacefully "Mom, if I have done something wrong, just tell me Don't yell at me blah blah blah "or also" Mom, lately, you have exploded over very small things, please corr...... reply
did set something on fire
