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Totally normal. 1. By using tampons or diva cups, you don't have to deal with a mess. If your masturbation is purely clitoral stimulation, there's very little to clean up, and the natural lubrication that occurs will help the tampons or cups be more comfortable, especially if your tampon is too dry for a lighter flow. 2. As someone with terrible......   reply

I used to feel this way when I was a teen, and I feel this way now. I haven't really classified it as depression because, in my case, it's a feeling brought about by external stress, not a wholly internal force that changes my enjoyment of life. In that way, the feeling might be different from yours. I didn't want to kill myself, I just wanted ......   reply

I'm 35 and a female. In middle school, 2 girls under the age of 13 got pregnant. In high school, in a class of only about 100 people, over 10 girls got pregnant. I couldn't understand it - I just didn't want to have sex that badly to deal with huge consequences like that. There didn't seem to be any benefits - even the attention it got was negativ......   2 reply

I don't have a problem with rape in yaoi. Or in most fictional formats. (There is one exclusion. Which I won't mention, because it's my personal problem, and not relevant to the discussion.) Not because I don't have a problem with real-world rape - many of my friends have suffered from the experience. I've had a front row seat to the type of intern......   reply

Age - 34. Female, Caucasian, writer, Colorado US. I began reading Yaoi/shounen ai as an offshoot of josei/shoujo in 2005 just after college - but there weren't many printed. I began reading it online in 2009. I tend to love stories where people have a huge internal problem preventing them from romance, but they fall for someone anyway. Which is why......   1 reply