GURL HE LITERALLY INFORMED U, EVEN BEFORE ANYTHING STARTED, THAT HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP AND URE REALLY ASKING THAT????? There's no way this shit is happening. This is so funny lmaoooo. I just hope she means another thing by that tho
What other thing can sexual intercourse mean?
nothing just hoping something else other than that HSBSHSHHSHS
there’s a difference between antisocial and asocial
What is asocial please enlighten me
Asocial (personality trait) don't like human interaction
Antisocial (mental disorder) harm( or want to harm) other people.
Who told you THISSS?? As someone who has friends who are medically diagnosed with antisocial disorder-you are way off. Being antisocial never defaults to wanting to harm others. It’s just a general disregard for other people, as if they don’t exist because they don’t matter to you as much as someone you personally know does.
Are you on something cause wtf are you talking about
Yes, I am currently smoking meth.
As someone studying psychology, they're not actually that way off. We just studied about it. Asocial is the lack of socialization, while antisocial (personality disorder) is the failure to conform to social norms, impulsivity, reckless disregard for safety of self or others, lack of remorse, etc. Which is why if they hurt people, they don't feel guilty about it. It's not necessarily that they WANT to hurt people, but often than not, they do. Even unknowingly. It's just that they can't process the guilt associated with it. There is a lot of criteria that you have to meet before you are diagnose as this one. So yeah, I hope I answered yall.
Thanks for elaborating better
The uke is obviously traumatized by his past relationship(s) which is why he got to this point where he probably no longer believes in a love that lasts and wouldn't hurt him. I understand where his actions are coming from and how he came up with such decisions. He's still hurting, so he probably doesn't care much about how he makes others feel. Traumatized or not, humans are selfish human beings. We do things to survive, to make life bearable. It's a lie if people say that he's not at fault here because he has a trauma. That was probably what I would think too, but then I learned from my psychology class that "you cannot make what you have as your entire personality and that you cannot make everyone adjust to you." I understand the severity of his trauma, but I won't be that kind of person who will not hold him accountable for his actions. He know he's still hurting. He is aware of the seme's affections towards him. He knows he's not ready, yet he's still welcoming the seme. I'm not going to call him names for sleeping around because that's probably his way of coping. It's also not his responsibility for whatever the feelings seme have because he has his own feelings to deal with. However, it is his responsibility to heal and recover from the trauma. As far as I'm seeing, he's really not doing anything to recover from it. A person really can't use whatever illness or disorder they have as an excuse for bad decisions (unless there's really an impairment in the brain). You really can't help a person who don't want to be helped.
For the seme's side now. Seme is clearly stupid. Stupid in a sense where he's pushing the boundaries of the uke. I know, he don't know about what the uke has going through, but uke's actions already speaks so much. In reality, seme's kind are annoying because they keep on pushing even though you already told them that you're not going to fall in love with them. In that sense, he's stupid because he's still holding on to that hope that uke might fall for him one day (I know he will), but he should give him space to heal first before bulldozing his way in? Though I know that this seems cute for a lot, but too much of this just seems annoying to me. Although I also understand his side. He's in love and love makes us stupid (been there, done that). I probably only see myself in him, and that makes it seem stupid and annoying. I'm probably projecting. However, this kind of behavior serves as detrimental for a lot to reciprocate the feeling just because they don't want to see someone hurting because of them, or because they feel guilty that they are "leading them on", or probably because they feel bad for welcoming the affection just because it's pleasurable and convenient. That would make it look like it's not genuine feeling, and just a feeling out of convenience.
In conclusion, I don't know what the hell am I saying because it's so late right now. I'm probably talking gibberish but I hope y'all get my point If you didn't, it's probably I don't make any sense.
Thanks for yapping (in a good way). Dw, this makes sense
he got rid of his stalker and now he got a probably crazier man
I'll let it marinate for a while
It's honestly satisfying that we collectively think that Raika's actions are not right. Not because she's a kid doesn't mean that her actions are justified. She made not only the adults, but also her classmates feel bad because of her complex. I'm not saying she's a brat because she's a kid. What i'm saying is she's a brat because that's just who she is. Kids make mistakes, I know. But that is not a justifiable reason to excuse them from their bad behaviors. Though I know she'll change later on because that's just how the plot is gonna move forward, but it's still satisfying that no one is excusing her bad behavior just because she don't know the consequences of her actions.
Just ranted a bit because I know a lot of kids who are like this in real life and lots of adults are not even trying to talk them out of it because they are "kids and that we should let them be". It's like how lil boys tease the girls they like—parents would say that's how boys are supposed to be and that's how they show affection—but in reality, it's bullying. The negligence and blatant ignorance of the adults will not help the children.
And don't get me wrong. I'm not excusing the mc's actions because it's obvious that his actions are hurting people too. He can be pretty annoying to the point that he's getting to my nerves sometimes. Which is why I'm saying that even though he's an adult, he also can be a brat. This is why the concept of age in terms of maturity is really not that reliable. You really can't say to people that "they should have known better because they are already at this age!" Like yeah no. They're at that age not because they want to, that's just how life works. No matter how immature a person can be, life goes on. It's either you stay immature for the rest of your life OR you progress alongside your age. Both a kid and an adult can be annoying. It's not about their age. This is just how I "judge" people—though in this sense, i'm judging the depths of the personality of the characters.
Does anyone have the raws :(((( I can't wait another day thinking about what's next