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h3w0o December 6, 2024 6:24 pm

This is an interestingly toxic dom and sub dynamic but I have like 3 questions:
1. I get that Heewon wanted Wookyung to understand what's ok and what goes over the line but if he was so uncomfortable couldn't he just say the safe word instead? I thought doms and subs could say it
2. What the heck did safe words do to Wookyung for him to prefer being in an ambulance (and I mean he got what he wished for ig) than actually saying anything?
3. Does Wookyung possibly have a mental issue where he's just like unaware of himself or something? Was this ever a thing?

    spaghs December 7, 2024 12:59 am

    i don't really have an answer for all three questuons but I figured i could say my two cents on the current conflict!
    I mean, yeah, Heewon totally could have said the safe words instead; both the sub and the dom can use it if they feel like it. What happened though probably has to do more w/ the fact that Heewon wants Wookyung to ACTUALLY understand the difference between play and abuse, and the fact that Wookyung is not only willing to dismiss that difference, but he also actively encourages abusive and toxic behaviours in the name of "pleasure" - all this just sent Heewon off the rails.
    He didn't use the safeword because he was trying to get his point across, and in that moment that was way more urgent in his mind than him feeling uncomfortable over hitting Wookyung.
    Also, not to justify any of this, because i think this is very toxic behaviour on both ends, but we have seen clearly how pushy Wookyung gets w/ bdsm play; he's continuously pushing Heewon's boundaries and dismissing his feelings, belittling him, saying he's boring all bc Heewon doesn't like to get THAT violent. So it makes sense, i think, that Heewon was completely blinded by the rage that something that should be very clear - aka the difference in bdsm between play and abuse, between play and violence - is still THIS hazy and light-hearted for Wookyung.

    h3w0o December 7, 2024 1:21 am
    i don't really have an answer for all three questuons but I figured i could say my two cents on the current conflict!I mean, yeah, Heewon totally could have said the safe words instead; both the sub and the dom... spaghs

    It sadly makes more sense when you put it that way. Makes me wonder if we’ll get any positive character or relationship development soon

    OTAKU22 December 9, 2024 3:04 am

    I feel like wookyung is ashamed to say that he's into rape/ abuse stuff out loud so he just agreed to do bdsm

h3w0o November 10, 2024 8:54 pm

Wait nooo the precious bean died!? But whyyyy he was so cuteness and they were literally expecting a kid! They glossed over that so fast T^T I refuse to believe he died after hearing the news that he would be a dad and they were so happyyyy 。゚(゚´^`゚)゚。

    BLsmut*addict November 10, 2024 9:45 pm

    I think the person who died was Raewon’s brother’s boo (he was reminiscing)

    BLsmut*addict November 10, 2024 9:49 pm

    Oh my bad, i just re-read chapter 1. Any idea why he died? There was no part saying he was sick or something

    Ecila November 10, 2024 11:27 pm
    I think the person who died was Raewon’s brother’s boo (he was reminiscing) BLsmut*addict

    Both died actualy :(

    h3w0o November 11, 2024 1:59 am
    Oh my bad, i just re-read chapter 1. Any idea why he died? There was no part saying he was sick or something BLsmut*addict

    No clue how the bean died but I think the brother’s lover died in a car crash? Idk

    Mgazer_24 November 11, 2024 5:09 am
    No clue how the bean died but I think the brother’s lover died in a car crash? Idk h3w0o

    Yes

    Alkmene November 11, 2024 9:24 am
    I think the person who died was Raewon’s brother’s boo (he was reminiscing) BLsmut*addict

    But whose funeral was it?

    h3w0o November 11, 2024 3:21 pm
    But whose funeral was it? Alkmene

    Remember the lady that Zeo had an arranged marriage with? It’s her secret lover and idk the exact chapter but we meet him around 30? I think?

    Alkmene November 11, 2024 7:53 pm
    Remember the lady that Zeo had an arranged marriage with? It’s her secret lover and idk the exact chapter but we meet him around 30? I think? h3w0o

    Yep, I remember him. I was just confused which one’s funeral was that. I hope it’s some kind of setup. He was a good kid ┗( T﹏T )┛

    h3w0o November 12, 2024 3:29 am
    Yep, I remember him. I was just confused which one’s funeral was that. I hope it’s some kind of setup. He was a good kid ┗( T﹏T )┛ Alkmene

    Fr he was so adorable and seeing him actually work together with Rawon would of been so cool

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