
But you already know your partner's uneasy and you still met the guy??? Without telling him? I mean i realize he's anxious and that made him dumb. But he really can't trust the uke's feelings. I know it's been like a week but a rocky start would have me second guess my decisions for real. The uke's really patient
like i understand he needs someone in the community to talk to but meeting your ex and lying to your partner makes you less trustworthy. you question someone's loyalty but you do things like this? idk man it's really unfair to the seme coz he even blew up at him after that and tried to leave. he should've found other ways to resolve his doubts. Arima is a red flag for this. Some actions are understandable but somehow still unacceptable. I think it might be hard to date a previously straight person as a gay man, but it also is really hard to love an insecure person who cannot trust you.