The fact that you got dumbasses asking why he has both is exactly why ppl need to start actually learning what LGBTQIA actually means, the I stands for intersex, they're included because ppl are still so uneducated about them. Also there are trans masc ppl who have a dick and vagina too, not in the same exact way but you know.
I'm so tired of yaoi mangakas trying to convince me that fucked up dynamics can magically turn into a healthy one. From the beginning the tone was completely inconsistent. It would trivialize rape to a ridiculous extent then turn around and show the cruelty behind the seme's actions in a more serious light. It felt like whiplash.
I like non-con but I'm tired of it being treated like some little squabble and not a traumatic thing. The psychological tag was so misleading, I thought maybe I'd be getting some Harada shit but this is more like a badly written Color Recipe. Stop tagging stuff as psychological when it doesn't even try to explore the psychological aspect of the dynamic