How do I disassociate myself from something that I'm reading? I feel too much sometimes it's tiring to finish a series. I have tons of mangas manhwas and novel that are left halfway cause I'm too pussy to continue when its getting to the climax or anything big revealed cause I'm very tired emotionally lol
I'd start by taking your time. When you start to feel yourself getting too emotional, pause and come back later when your feelings have mellowed out for a while.
Or you can try spoilers. Picking a random chapter to start at or starting towards the end to spoil some of what happens helps to give yourself time to be emotionally prepared for what's to come. For example, say a manga is 110 chapters; start reading to give yourself a basis of who the characters are and what is going on, then skip to say chapter 83 and see what's going on for a few chapters (just skim through to find spoilers like "so and so dies on chapter 89"). Now you have that knowledge and can give yourself time to process it and then start the book from the beginning. This way, you won't get too invested in a certain character etc. and can read the book all the way through properly without nearly as much emotional distress. It'll still be enjoyable too, since you'll be able to put more emphasis on HOW the story and the characters get to that point.
I often get very emotionally invested as well and its absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, it can just be frustrating at times. Spoilers is what works best for me.
Idk if it's helpful since I can easily dissociate from stories, what happens in my head is that there is a switch that gets flicked when there's a scene that's too much and I see it as a image flashing by than a thing that can actually happen to someone.
Maybe you can tell yourself that the scenario ain't happening? That it's a hallucination perhaps and it's all a bad dream and things do get better?
Maybe a tip would also be to take some time to process those emotions so there's space to continue the story again. And remember that it is a story and it isn't happening to you right now and that you are safe and loved. I know it sucks to think it may happen IRL too. :,( And in the story it hurts the character(s) too.
Tbh for me, I don’t start smt unless I will finish it in one-two nights. By then if I don’t finish it, then I usually save it for when I wanna come back (usually then I reread the whole stary if that happens) or I don’t come back ever. This happens with me for “sematic Error”- I really liked it but I was slow on reading it and then just stopped. I knew it was good, and I really liked it but I just stopped after awhile. I’ll probs at some point go back and reread the whole thing some day. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
I'm in a slump lol
Recommend me anything but only completed manga manhwa or any series that are good
If you want romance:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kokoro_kanda_neko/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kubo_san_wa_boku_mobu_wo_yurusanai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/all_about_lust/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/niehime_to_kemono_no_ou/
If you don’t:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/azumanga_daioh/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/genkaku_picasso/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/barakamon/
Is it inconvenience or necessary?
Curious cause there's this one bitch yapping about it clogging the chapter bs, personally I don't mind it. What do you guys think?
i mean, i dont mind if bots uploaded with crappy translations and stuff cus i jst wanna read it as soon as possible. but at the same time the place holders prevent that crappy shit bein uploaded for a better experience, also the fact that some translators do a one man job and work their asses off just to then see a bot upload over them. i personally dont mind it, and its pretty reasonable at the end of the day. this is an illegal website and its like yall gotta take a walk in life rather than complain cuh we don give no fucks
Where can I read Traces of Blank Space? I don't mind even if its raw.
I only found the raws
https://agit349.com/azi_toon/13355.html
is it this story? https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_trace_of_margins/
I want something with BROMANCE SOO STRONG IT'S BORDERLINE YAOI PLEASEEEE
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/me_no_doku_sugiru_shokuba_no_futari/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ore_no_joshiga_eritowano_nie_tare_kawaii/ they get jealous etc lol
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/just_friends/ this is def gay
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/18_unlimited/ they kissed more than 19 days and that’s shounen ai this isn’t??
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/nanohana_boys/ more like wholesome friendship but they’re precious
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hinatama/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bimyou_ni_yasashii_ijimekko/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/country_diary/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/muchuu_sa_kimi_ni/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/nan_hao_shang_feng/ mostly comedy
It's a manga
The uke is too cute and he wear mask to cover his face
And the seme is kinda bad boy... Please i don't remember the title
I think it’s this one http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hoezura_ni_kamitsuku_kisu/
Never mind guys I found it
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hoezura_ni_kamitsuku_kisu/
I found it in my list (=・ω・=)
My colleague asked me if I know or read BL and I lied lmao I said I just know a bit about it but in reality I can literally graduate in masterclass if there's ever a bl courses. I can excel and get a 4.0 cgpa in bl.
And I literally just read a bl while working lmao
Real.
Ikr we're not prepped for this question irl. And my gaydar was not tingling with her so no effing way I'm saying I like it lol
Fr the vibes have to be there.
I also had same experience
Not irl but online
One of the people suddenly asked me if I read bl
I lied
I want to be like that person he is so free I mean he don't care what people will think
But here I am who is scared to say I'm gay even in online group
How will I tell offline people I'm gay
Maybe never
bruh my gaydar is really weak lmao, i wouldn't even know if a person was gay unless they're being quite obvious (i'm talking abt ppl who are openly gay not the closeted ones)
I remember my supervisor teasing me about me liking to read SwordFights
Yeah some people are more feminine they make it obvious that they are gay lol
I mean why do some people act like this
it's cringe
These people are the reason why people think every gay man is feminine
Yup , i don't want to be the weird one here. I mean it's not weird to be gay. It's just the people are not right. The vibe I'm getting from her is not it
Yeah, only one of my sisters and my best friend know about me.
I might as well just quit my job if my supervisor knows I read bl lol
Hahahaha. He is cool with it actually a team mate of ours introduce me to read BL and I got addicted since then so when I told my supervisor I was busy he will just say busy reading sowrd fights ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭