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several studies have actually shown that because of sexual violence being portrayed this way, people actually start becoming desensitised and may even come to believe (even unconsciously) that sometimes, sexual assault/rape can really lead to love/people who are sexually assaulted feel pleasure while being assaulted. for example, in the porn industry, women are usually portrayed in a way wherein they feel pleasure even though men are being rough on them, and this has actually increased the number of men and women who believe that there are women out there who like being assaulted or that even though women say no at the start, they will eventually succumbed to pleasure. so, yes, even though this is pure fiction, it actually contributes to rape culture, and it's not wrong to keep talking about it until people realises that we shouldn't just brush off stories that portray sexual assault as something normal or something that doesnt lead to grave consequence

I don’t get as to why both the cardinal and soleite are so obsessed with Ian. Both Brian and Ian have completely different lifestyles and were brought up different. Brian was more outgoing and cheerful while Ian is more secretive and angry/suspicious. All they share is similar looks, that’s it. I feel bad for Ian, even Ian knows he’s being played. Both of them are looking past Ian and only seeing brian, as if he’ll fully come back. Even if Ian remembers, it doesn’t mean he’ll change. He’s a completely different person, completely different values and interests. These dragons frustrate me