Cheol-ky's Topics (95)

Take me with you

Don't expect anything that will hurt you dear

I agree like the other guy is so bland no personality

Who did people say was abusive now??

don't minimize verbal abuse because chances are you are going to tolerate it in future thinking it's normal. it's not

and also Yacchan-Shmacchan is being emotionally abusive in the last chap too

I get what you're saying but don't take anything from this manga too serious lol

thank you for this reminder lmao (￣∇￣")

If you can't recognize that it's abuse in a book then you probably won't recognize it in real life either sooo it's definitely a problem ╮(￣▽￣)╭ verbal abuse is a thing and is not ok I get that this is a story but some people genuinely don't think the way ya-chan acts is abusive when it is which is concerning....

right, I grew up hearing mom insulting dad when they'd fight, so for a long time I considered it smth I have to tolerate with my female siblings and friends. now that I've healed this, I will not tolerate a "friend" calling me names under any circumstances. if a person can't stay respectful in the middle of a conflict/argument, they don't belong in my life ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Right I also grew up in a very abusive and toxic environment and it took me a long time to realize I don't have to deal with any of it. A lot of people grow up with it and think it's normal, but it isn't and they don't have to take it or deal with it cause they don't deserve it. I get that this is just a story, but a lot of people learn from the content they consume even with how weird this manga is in general because it's so weird it makes how Ya-chan acts seem normal and Kashima seem boring. imagine calling a green flag boring cause he's nice, safe, and respectful and thinking the verbally and emotionally abusive one is more interesting. That's a problem.

I grew up with a narcissist father, I know what abuse is. But quite frankly speaking, anime is a thing and tsundere characters have been a thing since forever. I can assure you, that most people who put up with verbal abuse don't do so because of tsundere characters

Yeah that's exactly the thing that happens after you've been abused and haven't dealt with it - you feel attracted to people who is capable of inflicting the same kind of trauma that you already have... they feel like "home" bc that the thing you grew up with, it's familiar. Also we can feel unworthy of healthy ppl so we wouldn't even look their way

I'm sorry... Well why do you think they are a thing? Because most parents are disfunctional, we want to replay our childhood thru tsundere characters, unconsciously we project on them our emotionally unavailable parents and then try to prove to ourselves that we were loved. we look at tsundere charas and be like "see? he/she actually CARES. it just LOOKS like they don't. but secretly they DO. I AM loved by my emotionally unavaible parent, I am!!". but the thing is, it doesn't do shit, we still need to heal our traumas ┑(￣Д ￣)┍ unless we feel like we need to suffer to atone our sins but it's a story for another occasion...

It's to start a plot and drama. If you're not comfy with this then I could recommend you to my favorite, it's a lazy drama and definition of true love and beautiful relationship "Cherry blossom after winter"