They give her no break. This why parents have it rough
Yeah, the story is about how she regrets her former life, when she didn't care and she wasn't vigilant, and she made them grow up without direction or emotional support. So, this is the sacrifice good parents make, and she is determined to be a good parent. Maybe the next step is getting them to show a little consideration for her.
I hope he isn't end game... the very least let her be older than 18.