What should I do?
So like...
My friend says that she doesn't wanna hang out with me anymore because of my obsession to a guy.. They hate how I always talk about him in front of them and it irritates them.. this issue has been going on for a month now and idk what to do anymore, I tried talking about it with them but they kinda avoid me
Tone it down a little.
"obsession" aight. That's the problem there.
Yes ik that but I'm not that obsessed, they're the one saying that "My obsession" is too much.. but I don't think that I'm obsess, just I really talk a lot bout him
Obsessed is not the right word, true. But still. "a lot" is pretty close.
It can be tough when your friends ignore you, but I think you should really try to reach out to them, really make it apparent that you can't help your obsession but you will try to tone it down, and that you want to understand more why they think it's annoying or to much. It could be maybe something you say about him that triggers them, or maybe you just mention his name to much, or maybe you only talk about him in conversation and literally nothing else. Try to reach out and see if you can fix it, if not then just move on.
Even if you bring him up every once in a while, it can still get aggravating. I have a friend that's like this. We don't talk much, but when we do, it's about someone else in her life who's creating drama for her. I understand it's stressful for her, but after a while it just gets old.
My advice? Talk to them, apologize (even if you don't think you're in the wrong), and tell them that you won't talk about him anymore. If they still refuse to hang out with you, then it's a different problem entirely but they're using that as an excuse.
I totally get how this could annoy your friends, so if they stop avoiding you, you just have to be careful about not talking about him unless it's reaaally necessary or juicy.
If they don't stop avoiding you, make them know that it hurts you so they start feeling bad.
And worst case scenario, start ignoring them too and make some new friends.
I was on the other end of that. My wouldn't stop talking about the boy she liked she'd tell me even the simplest most pointless things like "he had bed hair today", then they dated and broke up. Then her talking about him got 100 times worse. It finally ended after a year and a half.
But even with all of that I never threatened to stop hanging out with her since I knew it was a "young people find love" and that she'd shut up about it eventually.
Like everyone else is saying tone it down, it's ok to talk about someone you like, but if that talking is the same thing every day, everytime you strike up a conversation. Then dial it down to once a week or two days. Or only when something major happens.
So just go up to them and say you'll dial it down, and try to talk about other stuff.
Simple advice: stop talking about the guy
Bras over (man)hoes
friends are more important than a fella
Guys, thx for all the advice.. yes, I did try to tone it down a little and I also did apologize to them.. I try not to bring his name up when I'm with my other friends who I still hang out with but this one friend of mine told me that she doesn't wanna get involved or hang out with me anymore cauz he's in my life
They have stated the obvious problem, so you can help solving the situation by stop talking about that guy ffs. Maybe you might as well deal with him and end this endless dilemma. Don't waste your energy and time.
Ok, so I have this friend who's a girl who keep saying that she's a les and I have this guy friend who I think really likes her but this girl friend of mine keep saying that she don't like him but always give him time and they talk for hours until late at night..
So, is it normal for her to talk to him for hours till late even tho she don't like him and she knows that the guy likes her? Isn't that showing that she like him too and making him hopes up or what??
Helloooo
Well some people like attention and also make things progress like a soap opera .I'm telling you this because I used to have acquaintances in friendly groups who only caused trouble with their unstable personalities
I advise you to say some words of wisedom to both of your friends and if they continue this situation just keep a distance from them until they finally understand their own mistakes
She could think about him as a friend you know? But I do expect that she rejects him soon
Let them be,because this is their own business until the him gets rejected and learns his lesson and the girl is just a bitch.
Already rejected him, twice but the guy is really persistent
Already did and the girl, she's so naive, we had to tell her that the guy is showing sign that he likes her but always say that he's just being too friendly but nope, it's different
Well not that I'm interfering into their business but then, it's also affecting our group of friends because of this issue
I can tell you now that will NOT end well. I've had that happen to me. I rejected my friend over and over for years. I warned him some time last year that if he flirts with me again I'll break off all ties with him. You can only take it for so long. It's basically harassment.
Just skip me, I talk useless crap
Ok......
There's this new student in my school, , more like a transfer.. he's really nice that everyone likes him and he's really handsome and really cute too, everytime he walks around campus, someone will eventually steal a glance at him and giggle.. oh shit lol, so then, he started hanging out with us and we got to know him better and I kinda started have feelings more like a boy crush , but I knew that one of my friend already like him, like seriously like him, that's why would rather pretend that I like him as a friend rathe rthan like him as a guy that I want to date hahaha.. Valentine's is coming
See I told u I talk useless crap
Who gives a shit if your friend likes him, she ain't dating him and he ain't dating her so why cut yourself out so fast if you really do like him. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
I agree with above. Friends end up liking the same person all the time, and why do your feelings matter any less just bc your friend likes him too ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I love the intro hahahha
It's just a matter of who's more important? "hell no!!" but I don't think that's it.. I mean I guess if your friend is a "REAL" friend and the guy might like you; I guess she'll support you unless she is a selfish biatch. I had similar experiences. My friend had a guy that she has a crush on and I.. you can say that I like that guy too but I'm closeted that time so I never told anyone.. then that guy turned out to be gay and also had a crush on me.. my friend.. she was seriously happy for me and told me "NO GUY CAN DESTROY OUR FRIENDSHIP" and I guess that quote should also be the same for you and your friend.
C O N F E S S
Thanks for all the comments guys, it made my night and I don't really know bout confessing because I'm not really that confident with myself and would rather keep my feelings to myself cauz don't wanna feel rejected but at the same time, I just freaking wanna scream everything out, that's why I don't really think of confessing cauz I don't want it to be awkward between us like all of us friends, seriously, two of my friends seriously like him
But seriously, there's also a plot twist to it
That's true.. basically, in my lovelife right now, there's a guy that I like but I think he like my friend that is Bi, but then she likes me
What a life
Any Bl that uke cheat on seme
Uke is a naive guy who is trying to pay off the dept that the ex gf left behind, she also left her kid. This seme, that looks like a "loan shark" but actually run a legal loan business like this uke that he will ask the kid to do shitty things like scratching his so that the dept will increase and to pay it off he have to have sex
following
Followinggg
the title is actually 'FOLLOW'
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/follow/
CHAPTER 3
Ok, so the seme was kinda want to monopolize the uke so he always spoiled him and do everything else for him so the uke think that he's "useless" then decided to just go home but then the seme was kinda like, "don't u like this" something like that. Then seme just told the uke why not just live with him and next day, uke's things is there in seme's house. I think seme is really nice in the outside but when one time, seme and uke was walking to the university, they meet the girls, found out that seme Cooks and ask him if they can also try his cooking but seme kinda snapped.
Sorry for this really poor English explanation but I really hope someone remember this. Been wanting to read this again for a while now
It's all one manga but the scene you're describing is in chaper 3
Ur my savior, thank u very much!!!
I've been stressing out and I really need yaoi's in me right now.. any recommendations? If can, I need a fluffy one
Thx
Thx for this one, I really love the story
You're welcome! ^^
Gosh, that moment when ur mother see all the yaoi pictures u have in ur laptop screen
lol what did you let that happen? rip your image
Rip u(╯°Д °)╯╧╧
T___T Nuuuuuu, lol say it was Trojan and pray they don't know much bout software xD
Architect/engineer (seme) construction worker (uke).. uke fell, got amnesia forgot bout the seme, he thinks he's now a teenager
Punch up, happens in ch9
Thx.. I really wanted to read that part back again that's y
A yaoi, I think
Woman fell for a guy that has a boyfriend and went to his home with her sister and seeing the boyfriend instead of the guy in the house and told him off and that she’s better together with him than with him(boyfriend) and that she could make him happier..
Sorry for my poor explanation , just been really wanted to read it again because it’s been on my mind for a while now
it might be “i fell in love with my sisters boyfriend”
Thank u but it’s not the one I’m looking for..
aw fuck im sorry then