Jay's Topics (65)

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it is the raws

I don’t think it’s the author tarnishing it but the black haired girl! People like her actually do exist in real life! People who douse the S&M world with abuse and oppression. I’m glad the story is being told! We are being given a glimpse at the other side of S&M! A side we’re doms take advantage of their subs. Hopefully it advocates more awareness and need for a safer S&M community!

i believe that there are already plenty of stories like that but very few that are actually positive, healthy, equal relationships which is what me and many others have been wantnig for a long time.

so many stories that have BDSM, female dommes, or anything of the like start off with tons of potential only to go down the crapper with shitty writing or development.

maybe this author DID specifically want to go down the toxic relationship portrayal route and that's fine. it's their work and their story to tell how they want. if not, then it's just sad and a wasted chance to show the good and the beauty these relationships can have.

anyhow, that's just my take. i'm still going to keep reading because it's still holding my interest enough but i'm not holding it to any high expectations or hope.

Peace ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

I said these stories “tarnish” my kinks because the bad guys get happy endings without much growth. Most bdsm stories have the villainous doms so it’s pretty much imbedded in these kind of kinky stories.

IF the author was trying to spread awareness, they are doing a poor job. The smut is laced with nonconsensual sex which means they approve of the shitty behaviors in bdsm. Healthy bdsm sometimes shows up in the end after the climax, but the bad sex far out numbers the healthy sex so it’s hard to see the author criticizing bad behaviors when they fetishized it so much. Punish her for her actions if you truly mean it! Don’t reward her and brush off the rape just because she says sorry or whatever.

I’m dense, so I probably can’t grasp onto the moral of the stories with their tiny presence. I’m just so annoyed that having a healthy bdsm relationship is almost taboo. Almost every single bdsm story I’ve read had the unhealthy dom as the main antagonist.

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Oh my god, you are a saint!

I soo agree with you! She’s a complete asshole but still expects him to think of no one but her!
I really don’t like this dynamic and sadly the only other male dom comic out there is just as bad if not worse in my opinion, but I it’s called ‘s flowers’ if you want to check it out?

I’ve actually been following S Flower for a while. I do agree that she’s way more clear with consent and makes sure her partners knows what kind of relationship she wants. However, she’s still pushy and selfish especially when it came to her ex. I like the stronger sense of consent, but the dom’s personality is plain garbage.

I feel like femdoms are usually a way for authors to take advantage of men which makes them look scummy.

Yeah I agree with you, they want women to look powerful and strong and almost take advantage of the men’s weaknesses, in my opinion the perfect female Dom would be assertive and confident but at the same time caring and gentle , I mean what the hell is wrong with wanting to spoil your partner a little!? And to be honest this attitude is what women want out of male doms too so I don’t get why woman get to degrade men but it’s okay for a woman to be a total trash bag.
Don’t you ever get that feeling when your reading a webtoon that’s like ‘ she would be a great female Dom’ cause I do! Almost every time.

I just remembered there is a webtoon called ‘Chitra’ it’s not smutty but the female lead is almost like a Dom, it’s hilarious too, you should definitely check it out, it might give you a piece of heart

Lmao, your comment killed me! (≧∀≦)