
I think I understand why siwon doesnt remember jinha, maybe because when siwon meet jinha in their childhood, jinha wear a mask (see the flashback and the picture siwon draw, jinha wear a mask)
and jinha name change too, no wonder siwon dont recognize jinha
and maybe at retreat, jinha already confess everything to siwon (about him being siwon childhood friend and the picture drawn by siwon) but unfortunately siwon drunk and of course he cant remember after he sober
after the retreat, siwon who doesnt remember anything from retreat back to himself and of course forgot about jinha and it lead to siwon ignoring jinha

Yeah, if that were the only circumstances, it is dumb to be mad at someone for not remembering what you did or told them when they were drunk.
He should have told him when he was sober, if he didn't have the courage to do so, it's his problem not Siwon's.
And also, he said: "you were the one who came on to me". But I only saw him clinging to him while DRUNK... Maybe he becomes gayier when he drinks...

i wonder why kyon the only servant who use white tux

Just guessing but possibly it's to create contrast between the main couple. Like Kyon is allll white and pure and a precious baby, and Lucaon is dressed in all black and has the menacing aura of a master of jackasses. Basically I think the author just throws the white outfit there for appearances and it doesn't really have anything to do with the plot.

I read the raw and yeah the main story about seme - Lucien Alexis Louis Cecil Bertrand Roseraie- Lu-sama for short and uke - noritaka a.k.a tenta-
Lu-sama is shotakon and he really hate japan/ japanese because his father cheating with japanese woman so he had step brother who is the seme from Aijin Reizoku Allergy. he really hate Japan but once tried to bought tenta from gay host, tenta look like a 10 years old but he is actually 20 y.o. that time tenta use fundoshi and afterwards, lu-sama really into fundoshi and if im not wrong, because of tenta and fundoshi(lol), lu-sama gradually like Japan
yuuji really look like hijikata-san from gintama lolol
Now you made me imagine this entire story as if it was a fanfic. Thanks