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actually, it's a flashback

I think they know they said was. As in past tense

oh yh right, "was" im so sorry...i think i need sleep

I’m in my 20s and I do agree with the comments. I personally use to be in the same exact relationship he was in. Everything was fine then it started to become like this. I finally got out of my relationship and reading this BL makes me realize how thankful I am to get out.

At this point I don't know 2ho is more pathetic, mc or author, since he is going on a dates with cardboard cutout of fl, like wtf?!

My thoughts exactly, but what bothers me is that Yaemori is not even a potential girlfriend since the author is obssessed with Chizuru and likes to make the other girls "less perfect" than the goddess, same with Kaziya ironically, he is an annoying guy that is only a "good match" because all the pther guys is this are just WORST, and thats something.....

I partially agrre with you. Although its not cheating, it feels like it is. Mc cant even bring himself to correct the guy and say hes going out with someone. I get he has his responsibility as a director (ceo?) and being respectful to that dude but it still weird.

I'm gonna defend Yiyoung here. The dude is forceful af! He pulled Yi into the car even though Yi declined, took an intentional detour, igonred Yi's mentions of being in a relationship and most likely just dragged Yi in to the restaurant and ordered his food. Could Yi just leave? Sure, but 1. that's not really his personality and 2. this dude is a business partner. I have so many issues with the dude for being so brazen and forceful!

Now it all depends on how Yi responds to Kang... I hope he tells Kang the truth about his whereabouts, bcs hiding it is just gonna cause more issues

Also, remember the dude is added to the story only for Kang to realize he is actually NOT okay with Yi leaving him for someone else and without a forceful jerk like this, Yi would never end up in a situation like this by himself...

How is it cheating when he was declining the invite and was forcefull pulled into the car.

Interesting points you have here and I like that you came into this comment with this perspective but I notice you point the blame solely at the new guy and dont hold yiyoung accountable for passively going off with a guy whose flirted and is interested in him even while knowing he’s in a relationship because yiyoung’s “personality” isnt the type to just say no firmly. While thats making excuses for yi, ultimately yi is the one in a relationship and common sense says you tell someone no. Its really that simple. He allowed himself to be pulled along and walked into that restaurant on his own 2 legs & is continuing to sit there and engage. While his actions are not cheating imo as the original poster said they are inappropriate because its up to both ppl in the relationship to set boundaries with those outside their relationship. Yi is forgivable here because this isnt a huge deal so far, The new guy is pushy and intrusive but the world is full of those ppl and its up to the person being pulled along when they dont want to do something to make they’re own decisions And here yi chose to go along with this instead of firmly standing with no. I do agree with you in the hope that yiyoung is honest with kang instead of hiding this because these stories have way too many dishonest secrets and casual lies for no reason most of the time.

Fr bro also forgot that he got hit on lmaoo

I think he’ll be furious and lose his shit

They seem happy to me? They have fights which is pretty normal, and this manga has always had a more realistic tone to it.

Depends on how you look at relationships. If my boyfriend and I had a fight and he left home, I would be fucking pissed! And for me it makes Mafuyu look like an immature brat while Ue is the only one who grew up and still has to deal with these childish behaviors. I used to defend their relationship when they were teenagers, but now it just feels like they’re never on the same page, and that Mafuyu is just living his life without including Ue in it. Might be wrong though, this is what I’m feeling from these few chapters. And tbh it’s getting really repetitive. It’s like the author wants to believe that Mafuyu is the only natural talent, but Ue is super talented as well with all his hard work! I’m starting to think Ue deserves a better relationship than this.

Those types of fights aren't normal. Raising your voice to your partner should be a very rare occurrence. Someone said "fights are normal" once, referring to arguments, and people started normalising that shit.

Seems to me like you're pinning everything on Mafuyu unjustly. They were both being immature by being unable to compromise and talk it out calmly, that wasn't only Mafuyu. Ue was acting the exact same way. Mafuyu recognized that he wouldn't be able express himself well, so he left for a few hours. It's not like he left while Ue was begging to talk or for him to stay, that'd be different. Seems like this was the norm for them and that Ue didn't mind it at all (if he did they didn't show it).

As for Mayufu going out doing his thing, we don't really know much about how Ue feels about it. They both seem busy doing their own thing but are trying their best to spend time together when they can. If that works for them then who are we to say that Ue is compromising and unhappy? Where were we shown Mafuyu straight up denying Ue's feelings about how things are? We didn't see when they made these decisions, since it probably happened somewhere in the 10 year span, and unless they state it directly, I'm not gonna assume that Ue is unhappy with their arrangement.

I personally also don't think the author is trying to paint Mafuyu and Ue's talents as Ue being inferior or anything. They just have their own things going on. Mafuyu's natural talent has of course always been a big part of the series, so it's not weird they're putting some emphasis on it. If anything, didn't the author show just how hard working and talented Ue is in these chapters? They focused on him way more than Mafuyu.

Those are just my thought about it though, it feeling repetitive is a valid critisim of course. It's only chapter 3 so I'm not sure how to feel about it yet tho hahahah.

Ue deserves a better mangaka and a better relationship. Don't get me wrong, I love this mangaka but I don't like what they're doing with him.

"They're never on the same page" ??!??! Wdym???? Actually if you actually READ this, you'll understand how fight like this help both ue and mafuyu. MAFUYU finally could argue with someone he loves without being guilty about it! Remember the last time he argue with yuki, how did it end? Exactly. But im glad that ITS UE who is with him. And UE literally is just the same as mafuyu. And believe me, arguing about things we love, is FUN. Idk if you ever have a relationship where the two of you like or obsessed with the same things. ITS FUN bcs both of you know, it wont last long, you still on the same boat at the end of the day. It could be a two sided knife ofc, it could end bitterly like ugetsu and aki but THANK GOD mafu and ue is just fine like this. And WDYFM with "ue deserve a better relationship than this"?? I dont fckin get this every time someone just said "oh ue deserve better" bs bcs UE AND MAFUYU DEFINITELY deserve each others. Period. They match each others freak and ue, have always proven that he is different than yuki. He is the perfect match for mafu and nobody but ue deserve mafuyu. All your opinions just somehow made you seen as a non given reader ┑(￣Д ￣)┍ ig its a language problem

I do agree with that, which is why I said this manga always had a more realistic tone to it. I do think they both are a bit too stubborn. But I don't think it's all on Mafuyu or that Ue alone is being "punished".

I’m with you!! I said it on Reddit before but the only relationship that looks happy is the straight side character couple (I can’t remember names lol)
I’m literally sick of this, I really hoped by now they have a grown up relationship, sharing their life together in harmony etc but I can’t see or feel it

So (as opposed to us who, apparently, didn't even read the manga, lol) you -as the ever knowledgeable Given reader- agree that every little thing about their rls is STILL all about Yuki, correct? That's what you're saying here? Unprompted? Bc I agree, oh I AGREE WHOLEHEARTEDLY. The author seems to be stuck in the beginning of the story and doesn't let Mafu move on from that at all so he can form a healthy rls with Ue who is incredibly patient, my god, he is a saint in this story.

Broski it's been TEN YEARS since they started dating, even more since Yuki died. What Mafuyu needs is a fucking therapist because a normal person would NOT see their fights as "awww he finally got the courage he needed to argue with me" after a full ass decade.

Lol I love that I am agreeing with every argument here. Yes, Mafu needs therapy.

lol so you think you’re a better reader just because what? Your opinion is different? Imagine living in a world where we all the same opinion as you, it would be boring as fuck XD I think we all read manga and interpret relationships differently, what makes you think you understand this better than me or anyone else? Grow the fuck up before telling me what you think I am you fucking clown

Exactly this! These mfs really think a healthy relationship is about fighting all the time because it makes them grow up lol what Mafuyu is doing is preventing Ue from finding true love. He’s so dependent on Ue that he can’t even function properly, and his mental age is still of a child, he’s stuck on the time he lost Yuki, and he will never get over it, not without some hardcore therapy lol and in the meantime he’s taking his anger and making Ue carry his own issues plus whatever the fuck Mafuyu is feeling at the time. 10 years later and it all still revolves around Mafuyu because he’s the “genius”. This is going on the same path as Aki and Ugetsu… and we all know who got alone in the end ╮(￣▽￣)╭

They're in their late 20s now. I ALSO AM IN MY LATE 20s and I feel like I'm still reading the story of a couple of teenagers. It's cute to read high school stories to look at them with cuteness and nostalgia, but as soon as the protagonists are close to my age, I expect a little bit more maturity, you know? I don't know why so many authors insist on doing a "X years after" and their characters seem to have not grown even a little bit.

He never had a chance sadly

How can a person be so accurate!