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They're both wrong, that's kind of the point. They both have to learn to be better lovers. Both are acting on their traumas and need to learn to overcome them. Yeah I get the whole "nice guy" thing but he tries to get communication started and gets blown off. It's frustrating seeing them both stumble around without dealing with their problems but seeing as they both want to stay together, they will be willing and able to learn to be better partners. Because honestly, chronic jealousy that can't even have you stand your partner having a life outside of you is equally as toxic. Like boundaries are a thing but not being able to interact even with coworkers is yikes
Anyways rant over lol