Hello! I studied this term in college, because I asked myself some of that questions too (even if I'm female). To sum it up, gay romace between two men is interesting for many women because of the gender itself. First, as a man, women would not have to fear pregnancy - it means having fun with sex without that kind of risk (diseases excluded here).......
a curse. > I'd rather I was never alive in the first place...
My mother reads yaoi every now and then. She read a lot of the old mainstream ones like Love Mode and JunJou Romantica, and I tell her if I have read a good one recently. We both keep the existence of yaoi from my dad.
I had a lot of homework and projects. I was so lazy. Then I stayed and read yaoi until evening. The next day I had to wake up at 5 in the morning to do my homework.Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)
5 Question for fujoshis from a gay guy