i just dont really like the he tian doesn't stop when he says to it just makes me uncomfy. like if someone says to stop, stop. its j kinda frustrating ig cause i would hate if someone didnt listen to me saying stop.
at first, for sure he tian’s aggressive behavior is something to feel uncomfy about, but there has definitely been character development between the two as both people and in terms of their relationship. they have become closer and come to a more friendly, teasing level of friendship, so he tian’s actions shouldnt be taken so seriously.
theres a fine lineeeee, an extremely, but dangerous fine line nonetheless when it comes to consent and 'no's' the uke seems to communicate, and what seems to be like its falling on dead ears. However, id like to say, the fine line on where its okay for the seme to continue and the uke to be okay and the other side of the line that is eyebrow-raising worthy should be universal. Its different in east asian cultures and western cultures. Nah its not rapey, or predatory for them to enjoy when their partner says 'no/wait'. Sometimes. One thing they find which is a culture shock when it comes to erotic play in the western world, in general, is how supportive and vocal the recipient is, whereas they find it cuter to be shy, coy and refusive, they like the tsundere trope. Whereas im sSOO happy that everyone is on the wave and is picking up on things like this, i want you guys to have the same energy to defend it also when that doesnt seem to be the case, its okay to back down and be like, hmmm maybe i was a little too reactive when that didnt seem to be the case, but i feel like sometimes it becoming a competition on whos trynna catch out something, even when it doesnt apply, like this. IM happy people are on the same wavelength, but im speaking on majority of the poeple here, it gets aggravaitng when you switch it up and misconstrue it, you can plant a bug in peoples ears when you bring urself to things like these which isnt very helpful, please educate urselves or keep it to urself.
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