When Yul said he wanted to hug the baby and Jun gave in, I thought Jun was gonna let Yul have the baby in his lap which is reasonable. Lol what was he thinking letting a toddler try to pick up a baby?? Props to Jun for teaching Yul that he can’t act spoiled if he wants a baby sibling
I hate how he thinks hiding his encounters with the girl will be better than jihwan knowing??? Like if he does find out that’s only gonna cause problems cuz it’s like saying Jun thinks Jihwan’s insecurities are insignificant so it’s better to hide than be up front. Also hiding the encounters when you know your partner is uncomfortable just makes it seem like you’re hiding it cuz you know you’re doing something wrong. I would be more upset if I found out my lover was hiding things over meeting some girl. How many times had Jun hid these encounters and jihwan found out? Too many times when will he freaking learn.
this!!^^ Like not telling Jihwan about it even after he told Jun that he feels jealous of Chae-ah + maybe it was fine in the past since Jun didn't know about Jihwan's insecurities, but knowing about them and believing that he should tell Jihwan but not doing so just sits wrong with me...
@xielian_inlove Did you really just delete your post that said the exact thing? Just because two people disagreed and commented? And did you really just block me from sharing my opinion again on your reposted comment? Well here it is again! But first here’s a copy&paste of the comment in case it’s deleted (again):
>” if jun and jihwan ever have sex, or do they just stop at little kisses and innocent cuddling... bc right now I’m absolutely convinced they’re just good friends that platonically love each other but nothing more. yea, truly. why? because author doesn’t really show them being affectionate, and when jihwan gives a chaste peck here and there, jun totally overreacts as if he is NOT used to it. I was so excited for jun to get attention from others because he deserves it and is more than just >>a convenient live-in nanny<<, but it seems like the love rivals went off their separate ways :| what will push them to be more affectionate now?”
And here’s my opinion that was offensive enough to get blocked for :)
People can have relationships without sex. SEX IS NOT A REQUIREMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP. My parents have been happily married for 30+ years and only had sex to have kids because that’s how they viewed sex - to make kids.
Ace people also exist and it’s degrading and upsetting when a sexless relationship is looked at as “not legit/not normal/just friends/“lol are you even dating?”
But most importantly, the author can keep their work as tame as they want.
umm everyone can do what they want with their own topics/comments, like why so triggered? i just woke up and had no desire to be preached at by a stranger. i posted what i did because i genuinely wonder and it angers me so much that jun is constantly being used like a nanmy by literally everyone - his father, the orphanage he's volunteering rn, and his alleged boyfriend.
if you have such a strong opinion just make your own topic without having to mention another username. makes ya look unhinged and stalkerish tbh.
typo fix: nanny*
and for those curious: my post is still up for those that are curious to see what i wrote - just scroll down ;) basically, i regards the two leads as two bffs and nothing more bc one uses the other as a nanny (jun consented so it's not forced ofc but still this is NOT a love story to me. just two bros raising a child.).
Maybe because I’m actually ace and your comment touched a nerve?? And the way after I told you how hurtful your comments are to ace people you continue to push that since they’re not affectionate enough or having sex then you only see them as friends. Besides clearly you’re the one so triggered you bothered deleting your post after I commented. This is a public forum so likewise “ everyone can do what they want with their own topics/comments”. And this is my topic/comment now so bye Felicia~ You weren’t interested in having a civil discussion in the first place so why bother commenting after I called you out if you think I’m so stalkerish and triggered lol
>”I just woke up and had no desire to be preached at by a stranger”
I only shared my opinion. I was also trying to educate people about asexuality and the various types of relationships that exist. You obviously haven’t learned anything from my “preaching” but perhaps others might have.