This is why I mostly dropped bdsm story, some of the characters doesn't have enough knowledge to do bdsm, and they just playfully go along with the pain
A good example is "my partner taste and fetishes" I highly recommend this too other bdsm likers, this story include safe word, rules, and even after care, I just hate hate to see them getting abused then called it as bdsm
Then again its only a story tho, just expressing my opinion
Someone one used the word "used tampon" for this red haired bitches that keep ruining the main relationship
Bcs they belong in the garbage after all