How does financially helping your boyfriend who quit his job for you is unacceptable? it's not like he'll dependent on him forever...Shouldn't a dom help his sub and be there for him to take care of him no matter what? even in the real world outside of the bedroom? or does the dynamic stop at just the bedroom?
No I think the point he was trying to make was that it could be dangerous if his sub is completely dependent on him. He wants him to retain some sense of freedom in case anything ever goes wrong.
A healthy relationship is one where you can say 'no' without fearing the consequences. If you're completely dependent on your partner, both in the bedroom ánd financially it will become more and more difficult to refuse stuff and say no. He wants his sub to be submissive because of his own free will, not because he feels obligated to do it. I think in a way, this is also caring for your partner.
every relationship is different, but for theirs i think they like a clear cut boundary within and outside the bedroom. with this kind of dynamic, its /very/ important for the sub to be independent, and for the dom to not have too much influence and control over their everyday life. otherwise, the boundary can be a bit muddy and in worst case, the relationship might even turn toxic. but ofc, like i said every relationship is different. its not always like that, but this sort of way of navigating things is quite common.
I don't get it? why does Helena subject herself to all of this headache? she has no obligation to stay besides the empress and her asshole of a son.. she can literally travel far far away, even move to another country, she's pretty and young! she can restart her life wherever she likes. or maybe tell the crown prince flat out that he's doing more damage then anything? like the least thing he could've done if he truly loved Helena is cancel his engagement with Eris and take the responsibility of the consequences of that decision... Everyone is so fickle and a coward! they hate confrontation & taking responsibility, all the characters are so hateful! even the father who couldn't stand up for his daughter being humiliated and treated like shit by her fiance... No wonder Eris wants to go back so bad even when her modern world has a lot of issues itself and is not perfect by any means... At least she could still find people with a backbone in there who somewhat care for her.
I hate Helena, don’t get me wrong, but she’s a fallen aristocrat whose mother wants to use her beauty to help her family rise back to power. In addition, if the crown PRINCE is courting you, what are you supposed to do? Reject his advances? She doesn’t have the financial power or societal power to reject him unfortunately. We see what happens when the prince (fucking asshole) and emperor don’t get their way later on. That’s why I really enjoy the end of the novel. Fingers crossed the manhwa makes it as satisfying as the novel
Wth is going on in this comment section? like are yall alright? lmao
You’re abusive, sexually harassing people asking invasive questions and presuming kinks, slandering, victim blaming survivors, all on a mangago comment section and ill bet you haven’t lifted a single finger irl to being any positive influence in the world. find some real causes to fight for, because from what I’ve seen so far you are a danger to society. the things you do and say are harmful and abusive to REAL people and you hide it under the veil of being anti-rape hijacking a real, serious issue over some random yaoi you don’t like. guarantee if this wasn’t online, you should be reported to the police for harassment
I honestly agree... Once someone feels insecure in a relationship and no matter what their partner does to assure them that they are loyal to them yet they still don't feel assured it's over. that relationship is doomed because you obviously can't forget nor forgive the past mistakes and your partner will grow frustrated and exhausted because no matter what they do to win your trust it just doesn't work. It's really time to move on and find someone else whom you can start a new page with (for both parties).