
the mom is...
but the dad and the grandma disgust me because not only are they blatantly ignoring her, they even decide to send her away although they know she’s developing a horrible personality. if you want her to be the heir shouldn’t you teach her common etiquette by treating her like a person instead of locking her away into her studies all day? she’s a kid for gods sake, kids cannot take studying that long, especially in a toxic environment like she is where no one cares nor listens to her, and all she has to do is hear the praise of a child she doesn’t even know. of course her personality would be horrible in the future, y’all made her that way

Every kid of her age and class gets the same education. You are treating this as a modern time form of education and it not. By age 16 they became adults. Shes like 10 now so she way behind of studies for the weathly. By 15, most females in that era would already be married off. So as someone more than half that age. She has to get used it. If she is to fit in with other nobles, find a husband, and have another family accept her as an in-law.

this story really broke my heart because not only was kyujin in love with both of them but they both also loved him so much. i don’t necessarily think it’s good that he ran away but he did it to break the cycle. let’s be honest their relationships were pretty toxic, and the semes were always paranoid and unsure of their relationship with kyujin and ended up making toxic choices. also, kyujin? cheating is never okay bb and you did it so many times...
praying for his ass rn...hope your intestines don’t fall out