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that is just pure speculation

Chanwoo also have a problem of not saying NO it seemed and it kind of make their play pointless. I would have prefer MD to choose the other sub honeslty

you're right... he shouldn't be so stubborn, but then again i feel like all new, eager subs are like that when they're first going into the scene. they don't really know they're limits, all they know is that kink does it for them but they don't know how far it can go. dom's should be there to lead them through it, by setting rules and limits in place to ensure that they're constantly communicating and making sure that lines aren't being crossed.

but as for the new sub? i feel like MD dropped him for a reason... he's sooo....... sus

i mean yeah... i said throughout the entire thing that we know jackshit about what's going on behind the scenes.

the thing that most disturbing to me is when DM told him after a very rough thing they had "why didn't you said the safe word?" while he clearly didn't felt good but still won't say it. so I doubt no matter what DM will do he will not stop the play, that his problem I guess.

wow I agree, some people are saying it’s bdsm and I agree but I’m like did Chanwoo get a consent that he was gonna kiss the guy? Like Chanwoo seems like he didn’t want it if it was just me and ion know if the slap seems to personal ? I mean Chanwoo must been through a harsh time to find partners fast but people are defending MD for his actions and saying Chanwoo deserved it but let’s not forget MD knows about Chanwoo exes not Chanwoo past but just his Exes

wow, that's so important and something i completely forgot to even think about: the new guys inability to ask for consent! you're so right to think about that because the dude has no idea what Chanwoo's rules/limits even are. how is the new guy meant to even respect them when he has no idea what they are? and MD is just forcing Chanwoo to go along with it?

i'm pissedt

yeah and I feel like Chanwoo “scared” to say no? Idk but I feel like he doesn’t want his pride to taken down and yes Chanwoo can say no but he doesn’t want too, Chanwoo look mad uncomfortable with the kiss, he been through abusive relationship and BdSM is kinda not really because abusive is the person keep beating you or hurting you without stopping and BDSm beats you and shit but you have pleasure and you can say stop, and in BDSM both of y’all agree to it

no it isn't fear, Chan never said no in their play! EVER! he never uses the safe word no matter what MD did! and yeas it is his problem and until he learns to say the safe word he will NEVER learn and will keep going to abusers and people that will use him.
why did Chan never change until NOW?! why can't he put limits even in his romantic partners??! Chan has a problem, it's not MD fault but it is still a problem.

can’t you understand???? that people who have traumas can’t sometimes say “no” because they don’t understand the gravity of the situation? example, Chanwoo can’t understand that MD was dangerously strangling him and won’t use the safeword! so Md used itinstead, I have seen you around, you blatant GASLIGHTING is alarming

i dont think you understand my point? If you were a victim of abuse you still have trauma in your life theres clearly something that happened to him for him wanting to find a partner so bad its like being desperate for someone trying to "love" you. MD told them to kiss, the new kid just kissed without asking Chanwoo for a consent, and when Chanwoo push away, MD smacked him and said if you dont want to do it leave, the look of Chanwoo face he clearly didnt want to do it, but he said he would do it anyway, when it looks like he didnt (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ and what if Chanwoo never learn to say no? and he keeps getting hurt and MD knows this?? I think there both at faults, MD not always gonna do the right choices and i think you should see it because if you were a victim of abuse you know its hard and whatever happen to Chanwoo past it must be traumatic

more than being scared of saying "no" Chanwoo looks scared of losing MD, who, before the whole offering of being a boyfriend, had been good and consistent and dependable to him.

Cuz he is, sis!!!!

i don't think he's gonna do that cuz we clearly see he likes him very much and is willing to treat him well. but i get it from where ur coming from cuz in a lot of yaoi mangas when tops get jealous they tend to ignore their limits and end up hurting them

Thats exactly what I wanted to say. I can understand perfectly, that getting rejected after his confession must hurt, but you can clearly see, that he lets his emotions affect the play, that followed after. I'm not okay with that, so I hope this won't end bad for C.

I don’t think he would do that but I see where your coming for but we have to hope for the best

i swear it was like the second i started thinking "i would really like to read a whole story on their relationship" the freaking author threatens to ruin a really good thing. i cry.

even in the first chapter that was centric to them, the only reason they ventured into more intense play outside of their broadcasting was because his hurt feelings got the best of him. and while that ended up being good for them, it still doesn't negate the fact that he did so without first discussing it with c, and that was scary... hopefully this at least starts up a conversation where c can clearly state why he rejected him and he doesn't pull bullshit like that again. scenes can go every which way no matter the intensity but it's important to be able to communicate and that's key to a good dm relationship, hopefully they learn to do so. both of them.

I know then she’s a TOTAL asshole and still expects them to only look at her! I’m all for a bit a character development but this bitch needs a lesson!