I know i am going to get lots of hate for saying this but fuck it, it really has to be said and i am so sick of reading comments that purely shows favoritism to the mc. I will be making multiple points in this long comment:
1) cheating can not and should not be equated to murder or rape. cheating is the act of betrayal towards the person you are in a comment relationship with while rape and murder is a violation of one's basic human right. How can one compare a violation of another's human right to betrayal of one trust? they shouldn't.
2) The MC thought his BF was dating his Best friend and married to another. He believed this to be true and still went ahead and sleep with the guy. That is fucked up and it means that even if it wasn't a misunderstanding on his part he still would have slept with the guy and continue to date him.
3) I don't know about the next person but i would never sleep with a guy that i believe my best friend was in a relationship with. I wouldn't care even if she was cheating on him. I wouldn't do it purely out of respect for our friendship and the love i have for her. plus i wouldn't want to be betrayed in that manner by my best friend.
4) Yes, Mari is a bitch, selfish, and childish but she loves her brother and friend. she was rooting for their relationship because she wanted both of them to be happy. She has been supporting her brother the best way she could. she kept his sexuality a secrete from their parent even when she really wanted him to come out because she thought that would be for the best.
5) Mari never really betrayed anyone. she didn't owe the wife anything. don't get me wrong what she did was fucked up and morally wrong. Even the wife understood that on some level which is why most of her hatred and anger was directly aimed at her future ex-husband. (what she said about mari and her husband relationship was on the nose- mari really doesn't know what romantic love is)
6) Just because you feel bad about something you did doesn't make the action any less yours. Guilt is just an emotion to make yourself feel better. It doesn't do the 'wronged' party any good because you feel guilty.
7) I totally understand the BF not wanting anything to do with him at the moment. Not only did he break his heart due to a misunderstand but he honestly thought that the BF was such a scum bag that would cheat on his wife with a GF and cheat on said GF with the MC. I wouldn't want to be around such a person who thought so lowly of me. I would start to wonder how they could possibly love me. Not to mention the heartbreak and the MC actions right after the break up.
Yesss, i 100% agree.
Damn you are so right
I think this manga can be renamed "Facing the consequences of being an idiot" , 'cus Joonyoung is a fucking moron. I think he needs to face reality (without drowning in self pity) , smh.
Btw , even though I may disagree with you , your points are coherent and well written . They made me rethink my stances on some issues for a while , nice !
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I am not defending her actions when it come to the affair. Yes, she was wrong for dating man even when she knew he was married. But that doesn't mean she doesn't have a right to feel betrayed by her friend. He thought he was dating a man that his best friend was dating an in love with which is fuck up in of itself. No matter who she is as a person what he did to his friend was fucked up. It doesn't matter if if feels bad about it. Things doesn't stop being what it is simply because you feel bad about.
She doesn't have the right because she incredibly hypocritical. It's fine for her to date a married man but it's not right for him to date the same married man. It's fine if she is the other woman and the wife should just accept it but it's not okay that there is a third other person.
The wife nailed Mari's personality right on the head. She thinks she's the only victim and tries to deflect blame onto others instead of taking responsibility for her actions. Junyoung at least takes responsibility for his actions and feels guilt for his perceived wrongdoings.
Honestly she doesn't have a right to feel betrayed she literally said that just because you marry someone doesn't mean you're shackled to them, guess what dating is even less commitment!!! If she thinks a wife has no right to tell her husband not to sleep with others then she has even less of a right hahaha but of course she doesn't see it like that because she's very immature
I completely understand his pain as a child and i also understand wanting others to share your pain when you are in pain but all of his actions as an adult is just... i really can't believe someone can see a child in so much pain and is begging for help and just ignore them when you can do something to save them, especially someone who has experience similar pain. Ignoring a child that is that much pain is just evil.
i didn't really like it, story seemed shallow, lacking, and way too rushed.
chocolate, strawberry, and vanilla will always be the best polyamory manga ToT (though near the end, there seemed to be selfishness arising). this is just a manga about love triangles lol, since the semes are always fighting. Also it was kind of frustrating to see people enter the scene randomly? Like the black haired dude entering the hotel, like how the heck did you find him...doesn't matter if its your parents hotel lol. And the brown haired semes (sorry idk the names) manager suddenly burst into their house in like 2 panels?
Am I the only one who thinks the omega is just as responsible for their shitty situation. He didn't tell the alpha his feelings and had a casual relationship with him while knowing he was a fvck boy. He became an omega, had s3x with the alpha while he was in heat and they bonded. He ran away without saying anything. No body is a mind reader. Also he knew the alpha was a d1ck but he still fell in love with him, what did he expect? That he would all of a sudden become a loving person.
Also on to his friend.... They have been together for year's with the alpha showing up, but he never confessed his feelings. He only did it after the alpha showed up and took the omega away. Also if his family could have help the son, why didn't they do so. I am not trying to discredit the help they give the omega by given him a job and a place to stay. But it is sus that he is now confessing his feels now.
Most of their situations would be resolved if they actually had an honest conversation with each other
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yejun didn’t know doyoon was an asshole back then, they were good friends and then friends with benefits who acted like lovers. doyoon only showed his shitty side when yejun asked if they dating so i don’t think it’s crazy that he fell for doyoon when they were in college together
Correct me if I am wrong: wasn't getting with multiple girls and known as a playboy in their school? He saw that an thought; Alpha is going to be a great bf material? Also how did they act like lovers, they did the exact same things as before with the inclusion of s.e.x. He also never told the Alpha his feelings, just made assumptions and through himself a pity party.
This is not to say that the Alpha is not accountable too, he is pretty shitty and a trash ml. Just saying that they are both responsible for the mess they are in.
no, it was never said or shown that doyoon was a playboy in college. he was only having sex with yejun when they were friends with benefits, he avoided omegas because he thought they were too much trouble. and yeah they low-key did act like lovers when they were alone together, in the flashback it showed that yejun stayed over at doyoon’s place for weeks and they would kiss and hold each other randomly. he said that doyoon behaved more affectionately towards him after they started hooking up. i think yejun has some blame for his situation but not that much considering there was no way he would have known he would differentiate into an omega, go into heat, get marked and get pregnant. it was just an unfortunate circumstance
Are we reading the same story???
yes lol? whats so wrong about what i said?
Depends. Some ppl say he is "experienced" so he was able to rope YeJun or seduced him into the FWB situation. I was giving him the benefit of the doubt (in the earlier chapters) but now he is presented differently. From his own p.o.v. he admits he's and asshole and he said "why did you have to fall for someone like me for?" "I had set you free so why did you (foolishly) come back for?". Idk how MUCH OF AN ASS he was back in school, but they had a good friendship until the FWB relationship where l, bcz YeJun likes him so much he agreed to have a (the) FWB relationship. It made him anxious because the relationship was NEVER DEFINED. And when he had asked Ian about it, Ian said no, we're not dating. And that broke his heart. So Ian knew (for sure) at that point, if not BEFORE getting into a FWB relationship with him. Ian wasn't a player. He just simply wasn't committed. It never mentioned anywhere he had a ton of girls and was playing around or was a famous Playboy. I think you misread into it that he was around a lot of betas and that all the females and omegas or whatever are so into him and that he was popular socially and so he was constantly surrounded by ppl. But he never slept with any of them. Noah had never mentioned that he sleeps around. Only that he didn't wanted a committed relationship.
I will admit that you are right about the omega thing however he was a player
How is he a player when it was shown that he only slept with Noah?!?
I mean, did he sleep with a ton of ppl or after Noah?!? He definitely didn't do it while they had been friends and while they were FWB. Where did you get the "he is a player" from?!?