I get really bothered when a character in a yaoi manga refuse to be in a relationship with someone they love because they want them to have 'normal happiness' and 'stay on the right path'. I always think 'who the hell are you to decide what is right and normal for someone else?' I also think that 1: the character who refuse to be in the relationship is a coward and is just finding a self-righteous reason to prevent themselves from taking a chance for fear of being hurt. 2: they must hate their own sexuality on some level to think the other won't find happiness if they are with a guy.
well it´s not just yaoi/gays ther are straight people too who decide that their partner should have a better life without them. hell that´s the reason i broke off with my 5yr bf he wanted a normal family life with kids and i knew i can´t give that to him. so it´s not just yaoi. it´s about putting the other person´s happiness above urs.
Am I the only one who thinks the omega is just as responsible for their shitty situation. He didn't tell the alpha his feelings and had a casual relationship with him while knowing he was a fvck boy. He became an omega, had s3x with the alpha while he was in heat and they bonded. He ran away without saying anything. No body is a mind reader. Also he knew the alpha was a d1ck but he still fell in love with him, what did he expect? That he would all of a sudden become a loving person.
Also on to his friend.... They have been together for year's with the alpha showing up, but he never confessed his feelings. He only did it after the alpha showed up and took the omega away. Also if his family could have help the son, why didn't they do so. I am not trying to discredit the help they give the omega by given him a job and a place to stay. But it is sus that he is now confessing his feels now.
Most of their situations would be resolved if they actually had an honest conversation with each other
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yejun didn’t know doyoon was an asshole back then, they were good friends and then friends with benefits who acted like lovers. doyoon only showed his shitty side when yejun asked if they dating so i don’t think it’s crazy that he fell for doyoon when they were in college together
Correct me if I am wrong: wasn't getting with multiple girls and known as a playboy in their school? He saw that an thought; Alpha is going to be a great bf material? Also how did they act like lovers, they did the exact same things as before with the inclusion of s.e.x. He also never told the Alpha his feelings, just made assumptions and through himself a pity party.
This is not to say that the Alpha is not accountable too, he is pretty shitty and a trash ml. Just saying that they are both responsible for the mess they are in.
no, it was never said or shown that doyoon was a playboy in college. he was only having sex with yejun when they were friends with benefits, he avoided omegas because he thought they were too much trouble. and yeah they low-key did act like lovers when they were alone together, in the flashback it showed that yejun stayed over at doyoon’s place for weeks and they would kiss and hold each other randomly. he said that doyoon behaved more affectionately towards him after they started hooking up. i think yejun has some blame for his situation but not that much considering there was no way he would have known he would differentiate into an omega, go into heat, get marked and get pregnant. it was just an unfortunate circumstance
Are we reading the same story???
yes lol? whats so wrong about what i said?
Depends. Some ppl say he is "experienced" so he was able to rope YeJun or seduced him into the FWB situation. I was giving him the benefit of the doubt (in the earlier chapters) but now he is presented differently. From his own p.o.v. he admits he's and asshole and he said "why did you have to fall for someone like me for?" "I had set you free so why did you (foolishly) come back for?". Idk how MUCH OF AN ASS he was back in school, but they had a good friendship until the FWB relationship where l, bcz YeJun likes him so much he agreed to have a (the) FWB relationship. It made him anxious because the relationship was NEVER DEFINED. And when he had asked Ian about it, Ian said no, we're not dating. And that broke his heart. So Ian knew (for sure) at that point, if not BEFORE getting into a FWB relationship with him. Ian wasn't a player. He just simply wasn't committed. It never mentioned anywhere he had a ton of girls and was playing around or was a famous Playboy. I think you misread into it that he was around a lot of betas and that all the females and omegas or whatever are so into him and that he was popular socially and so he was constantly surrounded by ppl. But he never slept with any of them. Noah had never mentioned that he sleeps around. Only that he didn't wanted a committed relationship.
I will admit that you are right about the omega thing however he was a player
How is he a player when it was shown that he only slept with Noah?!?
I mean, did he sleep with a ton of ppl or after Noah?!? He definitely didn't do it while they had been friends and while they were FWB. Where did you get the "he is a player" from?!?