Newyork Cheesecake's Things

Firat of all, I want to clarify that I'm not insulting the whole YAOI genre.
I'm a hardcore fujoshi myself and I've been reading it for more than 10 years.
But I'm getting sick of this YAOI cliches that are FAR TOO UNREALISTIC..
I'm not saying that this applies to all YAOI mangas but it sometimes become a pattern in some.
I just want to enumerate them and get it out of my system.

1. If one of the family turns out to be gay then the rest would follow (the father, the younger or older brother, the cousin, the uncle)
2. Rape isn't considered a bad thing... I hate how the victim isn't showing any signs of being traumatized but instead falls in love with the rapist.
3. All of the Uke/Seme's MALE circle of friends and acquintances start to fall in love with him. Its a LA LA LAND of gay.
4. Having sex in public places and people just magically disappear...

Haha.. With all thats been said...
I still like YAOI and I will continue reading them..

My first webtoon if I remember correctly was '19 days'.
I was not aware that this was a webtoon and treated it just like a manga.
I was confused at first because i was reading it from right to left.
Also I didn't know a page was usually that long, so I usually missed out some of the panel.
I was an idiot back then.

Now I'm completely obsessed with Korean webtoon.
My favorites are Lookism, Blood Bank, What lies in the end and Killing Stalking.

I'm 26 years and believe it or not, I'm still a virgin.
I'm not proud nor depressed by this fact.
I had my reasons why I stayed untouched for this long but maybe I should change myself and be adventurous this time around.
So I'm curious what are the majority age when people lose it.