I know he didn't say it out loud but if the guy I was sleeping with described me as "a bitch in heat" he would nvr get to touch me again.
Dirty talk is a pretty common kink in the world. Which tone wise can go either praise kink or humiliation kink or sometimes both. As long as the people having sex enjoy it then it's fine. But its important to talk to your partner about it just in case.
Like if you call your friend names for fun, make sure they don't mind that and dont be asshole and keep going if they do.
you bet your fucking ass it would. it's the sense of being dominated while being talked dirty while being fucked. honestly, i don't think it's that big of a deal cuz i know he doesn't actually mean it. it's part of the fun AND my self esteem ain't terrible that i'd instantly feel like shit if someone said that to me IN BED lmao
i used to think bad about people who like dirty talk or bdsm, and think "why do they degrade themselves, don't they feel bad", but that's only because you're taking it to heart. outside of bed is different. that's why safe words and aftercare are a thing. i'm a lot more open minded when it comes to kinkier shit nowadays when it's all play/fun. i've said it before, in this case, i doubt tak meant it in a bad way.
I'm into the lifestyle (sup other subs and littles!) and dirty talk is a pretty big turn on for me personally, particularly if it's a humiliation scene. That's said, Tak's words absolutely had no degrading tone to it whatsoever imo. I actually think that scene was a really good example of juxtaposition-- here we have a tall, handsome, very well put together man begging for cock, and a precious baby bean of a boy describing said man as a bitch in heat.
I believe that as long no one is getting hurt, whatever preference or kink you have is fine. But no matter how many ways everyone has explained it all I hear is disrespect. Like if you're not allowed to say that to me when were hanging out casually then you're definitely not allowed to say it while we're having sex.
Well, of course! You don't just go around calling people bitches in heat... I think that's common senses especially if you don't know the person you're talking to. Personally, I'd be extremely offended if someone who was not my partner or close friend said that to me. Being called a bitch in heat, whether in or out of the bedroom is a no-no for you, and that's perfectly fine. Everyone's got their kinks, or lack thereof!
In the context of the manga though, I think Mitsuru would have no issues with Tak calling him that at all. Not just because I think Mitsuru would probably be game for any kinky shit Tak
That part cracked me up!!!!!