Y'all don't know the pain and the effect of being cheated on and it shows. They tend to overthink small things and finds it so difficult to trust again. So for all those people that are getting mad at the uke, you aren't fit to be in a relationship and jio won't fucking choose you. The SEME ONOWS THAT THE UKE HAD BEEN CHEATED ON BEFORE so he should be completely honest and affirm the uke at all times, it is his responsibility because he chose him. Y'ALL LACK EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND IT SHOWS. Before you ask the uke to grow up, YOU should grow up first. IT'S NOT ONLY THE UKE'S FAULT.
Absolutely....it's like a paranoia that won't leave no matter what....you tend over analyse everything.....you can't believe the evidences either it just all seems like an excuse
I agree to a point… I understand the trauma of cheating bc I’ve been cheated on in the past but if you can’t trust any of your future partners after being cheated on you should probably not date anyone! What’s the point of being with anyone if you can’t trust them ever. Unpack the trauma, then date when you’re ready to. Relationships don’t work if you don’t have any trust to start.
Absolutely....it's like a paranoia that won't leave no matter what....you tend over analyse everything.....you can't believe the evidences either it just all seems like an excuse Iamdefinitelynotonincognitomod
I was thinking about the same thing too. The effects of being cheated on is similar to paranoia
I agree to a point… I understand the trauma of cheating bc I’ve been cheated on in the past but if you can’t trust any of your future partners after being cheated on you should probably not date anyone! W... Cecebigballer
I agree with u. I made this comment for people that keeps on throwing hate on the uke while praising the seme's inability to communicate and they're so called "patience"
i understand what he's getting at but his assumptions are kind of a little bit... petty? i mean anyone can give out socks and have a nice ass and don't get me wrong, he really did display anxiety but the top promised not to reveal it to anyone because it's invasion of privacy to tell someone your friend's affairs to someone he rarely knows/have no idea that his affairs with someone else is being discussed to someone you're only familiar with but not close enough to share your secrets yk? and the bottom also is a little too aggressive and letting his past get to him instead of having a clear talk instead of arguing. but i hoped the bottom actually went through therapy first before entering a relationship...
i understand what he's getting at but his assumptions are kind of a little bit... petty? i mean anyone can give out socks and have a nice ass and don't get me wrong, he really did display anxiety but the top pr... GaymerFujo
he did have a clear talk but ya know what the seme did?he says he cant say it and who wouldn't be pissed? And even redhaired didn't say "ass" the seme said he was with the red-haired that night and uke heard redhaired said he sleep with someone in their team which was enough to give him suspicion
Yeah, however, shits tiring and freaking hurtful. After the sixth accusation, I said my peace and left. I told him he shouldn't have agreed to date me if his not healed or therapy.
Y'all don't know the pain and the effect of being cheated on and it shows. They tend to overthink small things and finds it so difficult to trust again. So for all those people that are getting mad at the uke, you aren't fit to be in a relationship and jio won't fucking choose you. The SEME ONOWS THAT THE UKE HAD BEEN CHEATED ON BEFORE so he should
be completely honest and affirm the uke at all times, it is his responsibility because he chose him. Y'ALL LACK EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND IT SHOWS. Before you ask the uke to grow up, YOU should grow up first. IT'S NOT ONLY THE UKE'S FAULT.
YOU GET IT!!
Absolutely....it's like a paranoia that won't leave no matter what....you tend over analyse everything.....you can't believe the evidences either it just all seems like an excuse
So real bro (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I agree to a point… I understand the trauma of cheating bc I’ve been cheated on in the past but if you can’t trust any of your future partners after being cheated on you should probably not date anyone! What’s the point of being with anyone if you can’t trust them ever. Unpack the trauma, then date when you’re ready to. Relationships don’t work if you don’t have any trust to start.
I was thinking about the same thing too. The effects of being cheated on is similar to paranoia
I agree with u. I made this comment for people that keeps on throwing hate on the uke while praising the seme's inability to communicate and they're so called "patience"
i understand what he's getting at but his assumptions are kind of a little bit... petty? i mean anyone can give out socks and have a nice ass and don't get me wrong, he really did display anxiety but the top promised not to reveal it to anyone because it's invasion of privacy to tell someone your friend's affairs to someone he rarely knows/have no idea that his affairs with someone else is being discussed to someone you're only familiar with but not close enough to share your secrets yk? and the bottom also is a little too aggressive and letting his past get to him instead of having a clear talk instead of arguing. but i hoped the bottom actually went through therapy first before entering a relationship...
yea but gurl even if u didn't get cheated u would still overthink cuz uke asked him but bro choose to not say anything
he did have a clear talk but ya know what the seme did?he says he cant say it and who wouldn't be pissed? And even redhaired didn't say "ass" the seme said he was with the red-haired that night and uke heard redhaired said he sleep with someone in their team which was enough to give him suspicion
Yeah, however, shits tiring and freaking hurtful. After the sixth accusation, I said my peace and left. I told him he shouldn't have agreed to date me if his not healed or therapy.