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yourr not dumb the same thing happend to me w english i lack motovation as well. they want me to do computer science. but i did not get into the school for it. I wannaa drop out bbut imma just be a dissapontment to litrally eveeryboddy

Happy birthday! I hope that you follow whatever you want and dont let others decide for you. I hope you will be happy with your birthday (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

I also get low grades and disappoint my parent sometimes but its just part of your life hehe. Fighting (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

As someone going into college this year all that honestly matters in the end is if you graduate. I’m embarrassed at your mom if she said that and never helped you. Also don’t beat yourself up, we just had a pandemic, some people aren’t understanding of how that impacts school.

Just get to college hun and you’ll be ok.

Hon,
I kn u r going through a lot rn but stay calm (｡･ω･｡)ﾉ♡
Look every single thing depends on if u r working hard and in the matter of fact u r...
In the end u will live ur future not anybody else so calm down and do ur best ♡(> ਊ <)♡
And vent ur emotions and don't bottle them up ( ˘ ³˘)
And HAPPY BIRTHDAY in advance (灬º‿º灬)♡
Keep on working hard and believe in urself ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅﾉ

P.S. U can talk with me anytime if u want (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。

I went through something similar and my family wanted me to take science stream till the very end but I tricked them into thinking I was taking science but I took commerce. Afterwards I went through hell for a few months because of how often they yelled at me and told me I would regret it. I'm in college now and I am 1000% sure I would've regretted it if I took science. The stunt I pulled might sound like something difficult to do but I lack the brains for science and I didn't want to put myself through that hell. My mom went to my school and cried because of my "low marks" but I'm gonna live my life not my mom. You're the one who's gonna live with whatever choice is made not you're mom. Don't feel bad because of your low marks you did your best that's all that matters. Happy Birthday and I hope you have a very happy year ahead of you.

Happy birthday!

Sup! Fellow 16 here! Man, that's the story of my life! Though I get avg marks my parents won't be satisfied until I get better than others. Ur not dumb and neither should you feel like you should disappear.

Ig most parents think grades are important but in my personal opinion the schooling system is too rigid. Accomplishments can be achieved in diverse forms and you shouldn't be stuck at just one way to be happy.

My parents also never gave me an option when I had to choose my stream. But fortunately, I'm better at sciences than other streams and I don't have particular goals. I just went with the flow.

Honestly, I'm a disappointment in many ways and my parents criticise my methods always, but I will stick with it to the end.

My choices will lead me to my demise or success, and I never expected much from my orthodox parents narrow minded thinking.

They love me, but their love is suffocating. But thankfully they won't push it too much when I've shown that I really don't like their ways.

They might hate me for not living upto their expectations but I live for myself, and I only got one life to live so why waste it with regrets?

It's a flamboyant way of thinking, and I might regret it later, but as long as I know I made this choice I will accept the consequences.

Sorry if it's long winded, I've been emotionally constipated these days. And hope it helped with ur break down.

First of all, happy birthday! May you receive all the good wishes!
Secondly, it is normal to lose motivation but always remember to stand up and move forward again! It is okay to take a break! Studying is hard but I believe you can do this! I didnt do well A-math too, and I have never passed once throughout my 4 years back in the school. One failed subject does not define you! You do you! And it will get better!
I hope your mom isnt too hard on you! ):
Fighting! <3

aaaa thank you for all your wishes and comforting words <3 i was crying while reading all the replies thank you dear stranger :D i hope everything will goes well in your life!
today my mom didnt even wish me but instead she ask me to do additional maths exercises but then its okay :)) im already happy by reading all your wishes so i dont mind my family members not wishing me :>

WHAT IS THISS WHY ALL THE RESPONSES GOES MISSING AFTER I EDITED IT IM SO STUPID PLS- I HAVENT SCREENSHOTED IT YET SO I CAN RE READ WHEN IM FEELING SAD
BYE IM GONNA CRYY AGAIN

Awww Hun,
It felt good that we could make u happy ｡◕‿◕｡
Don't worry ur future is gonna be bright for sure
Take care and remember to vent to ur hearts content...
More importantly ENJOY UR DAY LOVE (◍•ᴗ•◍)

i think you guys should talk it out. cuz many things end because of misunderstandings . like u can either share ur feelings directly or you can test it out by saying "i am feeling low" or "i am not feeling well" and look at their reply. it will tell u if they are sincere or not. and if they arent . maybe just stay friends and tr to talk to other people seeing who matches ur vibes and stuff .

thank you for the advice! i will try to do so soon but looking at her previous reply i can actually see how insincere her replies were.everytime i share with her what i felt and how tired i am dealing with my mental illness she will just ignore it and talk about something else.sometimes i do feel like im the only one whos try hard to keep our friendship and im like giving the best i can whenever she was feeling down while when im feeling down her replies seems uninterested to the point im so done with her

if its not working out then am sorry to say but maybe u need to take a break from her and talk to new people. like make more friends maybe? online or real doesnt matter as long as they are genuine and nice. or u can give ur frnd and urself some space , maybe she is going through something as well. but listening to u it looks like maybe she changed. u can ask if she's okay or not but i would definitely recommend making new friends and socializing a lil . since it wouldnt be worth staying with a person who doesnt ive a shit about u just cuz u dont have other frnds.

yeah strangers are nice. lol that does not sound right. um but yeah strangers sometimes offer good advice.

she probably is changing you probably are too. it also might feel like you're not as close to her as before. thats normal. im not you so i dont know what you feel but personally when it happens to me (and it recently happened with a group of my closest friends) i just try to move on. make new connections. maybe im too apathetic about it but its just life and if there are ppl who will come to me more comfortably and i can go to them then its a win win situation.

sry thats not rly advice but hope ur able to find a good confidante or connect with your friend again

Hi! so I'm an introvert and I'm going to assume your friend is too. social burnout (as I call it) sucks and it causes (most) people to not have energy and not want to talk to people. You should try and talk to them I have had friendships ruined because the other person thought that I didn't like them anymore. But if she doesn't want to be your friend then that's their loss (I am assuming you're a pretty cool person ;=;) and if you think that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore then you can choose if you want to try and salvage it or if you want to end it. (sorry if this doesn't make sense I am bad at showing what I'm thinking :P)

first of all thank you for all the replies :D
tbh i really want to make new friends but idk its hard for me to socialize i dont really know how to meet new friends in the internet im a really bad/dry texter to someone i barely know ;-; im thinking of stop texting my best friend since she found someone new which is a guy she met recently while playing games sigh im not stopping her or anything but she always complained about how trashy guys are but yet she still texts them sigh i rarely text with guys so idk how to reply when she ask about my opinions weather that dude like her or not :// its not like i dont want to answer but i srsly have no idea and when i say that dude might like her then she gonna be like 'no we are only bestfriend' land when i say he prolly dont like you she gonna be like 'he treats me specially' like girllllllll what kind of reply do u want me to answer T-T
anyway dear strangers thank u for hearing my rant :D

i actually tried not to contact her but its kinda hard since we are classmate ;-;

thats truee i really need to make new friends sigh since i realize that i actually feel more tired emotionally after texting her ;-; i wish i have the courage and great socializing skills to make new friends :) idk but the people in my school usually assumes im arrogant since i have resting btch face.and the worst part is i always get ignored and dont get treated nicely like other people

i mean u can normal talk her but dont give her ur energy as much as u used to. talk like she's just a frnd now. and by looking at the upper comment u made it looks like u guys dont meet each other's vibes maybe. and about the online frnds. yh i cant talk with strangers as well. but like maybe in ur class small talk with someone. or like u can play games to make online frnds maybe. and maybe wherever u go try to make small talk with people. u never know u might just meet the most amazing person u could ever have.
and just be genuinely nice to everyone but not too nice they might think u r a pushover.

if its emotionally draining u then dont. just dont text her. i can assure u u will feel sooo nice when u dont have to burden with someone's toxicity . and about friends. its ok dont need to hurry. u can work on urself first. try to be more cheerful , but not fake. be genuinely nice but know how to say no. try to be more social and other stuff

i actually hate the most about my self that i always ended up giving so much energy even though at first i was planning to just reply shortly idk maybe thats my toxic personality or something. i did talk with my other classmate but i dont really get close to them because all of them have their own group of friends

i dont think you need to actively avoid talking to her. i have the same experience being a dry texter as well. i find im a lot more engaging if its about topics i enjoy, you might be the same? luckily i found some ppl i just click with and in the heat of the moment i just said hey i like talking to you a lot wanna trade "wtvsocialmedia" dont think too hard about it. keep doing what you want. enjoy life and all that jazz. and in the end you rly dont need to have someone always filling that "best friend" role. and in any case, not to be mean, but to be completely honest, that friend of yours or former friend sounds like a pick me girl. the way i see it, its just best to let this relationship fade out. if ever u need anyone to rant to again or just discuss stuff my messages are always open. ^_^

thank uuu dear stranger im so grateful for your words so imma start to hold my self back from texting her starting now.
are u an army ;-; you are so niceee i met many nice army onlineee too :DDD

omg aaaaa u are so nice to the point im so touched and yupp i do think i get very excited to talk about my mangas boyss and shoujo mangas
but yk whenever i talked about it with my 'best friend' she will be like 'pft so boring' 'all mangas you read are so boring' 'you need help stop falling for fictional characters' 'you dont even have a love life'

haha no im not an army. i dont listen to music generally. （*゜ー゜*）im more into gaming. specifically genshin. (cant say no to hot guys and girls wielding weapons)

ohh anyway im sorry if my english are bad since its not my first language and im only 16 :DD

HAHAHAHA i can relate so badd
im kinda interested to play genshin since the characters are so attractive(main reason)
i will try it out next week hehe

not me mistakenly answering your reply to someone else's reply. sry ur talking to a dumbass my bad.

dont worry ur english is perfectly fine . (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ lol u r around my age . and dont worry about ur frnd. u just go with the flow. if u feel its too toxic u can cut ties anytime. these situations just make u grow as a person and u will know how to handle situations better in the future. and yes i am an army n.n i think ur too? and theres literary nothing wrong with liking fictional characters. liking a fictional character is like liking a celebrity , it doesnt matter if they exist or not , we aint getting them anyways so y not atleast have a crush on them. my bestfriend doesnt really like anime and stuff but when i talk to her about it she would pay as much attention as she can. she's literary the best person ever. so u need to find a person like that. and dont worry just work on urself and u will eventually get some nice friends

nooo you are not a dumbass. dont worry we are all humans we make mistakes everydayy so its okayy plus its just a minor mistake ╮(￣▽￣)╭

lmaooo ╮(￣▽￣)╭

hmm i do feel like maybe my friendship with her is just part of the test im going through in life so imma just leave it and let her go if she dont wanna stay being friends with me.if she gonna leave then imma just assume that i prolly gonna meet someone whos gonna match my energy just like you and your bestfriendd. aww i hope you and your best friend will be happy together ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

i hope u can find someone amazing as well! n.n and am sure u will!

i do feel like maybe this is just a part of life and in the future i might meet someone who will match my energy .if she gonna leave my friendship with her then i think i might be a hurt but it wont prolly hurt that bad since i have already read yall replies
aww your best friend are so nice! i hope both of you will be happy together :D oh and its actually shocking that you are around my age bcs you legit sound so matured and i really respect huhu <3

omg hahaha i replied to your comment twice bcs i legit thought the one i typed go missinghahhahaah dont mind me

i am actually one year smaller than u n.n . turning 16 next month. and i guess i sound mature? i have dealt with toxic friends just like a few months back. now am more straightforward . so maybe that just made me know how to deal with them or smth i guess? anyways i hope u do find someone amazing and have amazing friends .

lmaoo dont worry i feel u ╥﹏╥

oh wait i forgot i havent turn 16 yet hahahah im turning 16 next week.ahh i see no wonder your words sounds like you have experience dealing with such situations before.but like dealing with toxic friends are really tiring but at the same time will help us make life decision easier :D hahah thank youu for all your kind words

ooh i see! happy advanced birthday n.n . and yh they r tiring asf （￣へ￣）. but yh it makes u mature . and np i had pretty fun talking . i know u can do it n.n !

thank youu!! happy birthday in advance too dear! hehe thank you for giving me a chance to have a great conversation with someone with my age :DD anywayyy if u dont mind me asking, do u have Instagram? if you are not comfortable telling me its okay hehe i just thought that it might be nice if we can keep talkingg

yh i certainly do! whats ur id?

mine is @dewibatrisyia_ whats yours? :DDD