Couscous's Topics (17)

The author left it an open ending here for you to decide. Apparently, in the novel there is more and they do get together eventually, but here it’s an ambiguous ending you can imagine how you choose.

I dont really think its that he's selfish, his actions is actually something that occurs pretty often with depression. He needs help and that's it.

this is funny cus u act like moms are superhumans and are prone to depression, I mean let’s look in a bigger picture, let’s say hyesung let byul near him and lose to his emotions and takes it out on byul? what’s worse? I am not saying that hyesung is right for ignoring byul but he needs some time, man went thru traumatizing shits, he has to get ahold of himself before taking byul in his hands or he might hurt the baby

I understand it honestly isn't the most stellar he could do but hye-sung also has trauma and what he's going through isn't something someone with hye-sung's type of character can just slap on a smile and say all is ok. Not approving what he did but cut him some slack

as someone who has depression, I can somehow relate to hyesung, and please stop acting like dojin is fucking pure, I have nothing against him but he is NOT THAT OF A GOOD GUY AS U MAKE HIM OUT TO BE.

The funniest thing is that you answered like you know me, I’m 38 old mom, with a looong history of depression, but when it’s about my kids they are first, nothing comes before them, so telling me that moms are not superhuman, I will tell you when it’s about our kids we become superhumans.

That's you... No everyone. A person who growing up with don't have any good adults around him. A teribble father, nowhere mother, gambler and alcoholic (as far as I remember) grandmother. Basically a person who had a broken family. He's need to survive by himself. He's not even done with his studies! He's mind basically just like a child I suppose. So I expect him this much because he's not even ready to be a mom but have to because that his responsibility.

then all the more reason for u to understand hyesung's situation, I understand that what he did wasnt right but u are literally invalidating his depression with ur comment, ma'am, and if u dont know which part then I ask u to reread or just delete that comment of urs

I will never understand that, it’s not because it’s me or because of his broken family but because I am a mom, and who doesn’t have a trauma, who has a perfect family? Nooo one.I’m sure the severity of the trauma diverse, but motherly instinct most of the time takes the top, I will say most of the time because there are shitty mothers too.

I will never understand as a mother, and really I can’t argue with people who didn’t experience motherly or fatherly love ( of course I talk about descent people not selfish ones) for me what he did when he abandoned his new born baby and what he’s doing now is outrageous, maybe you didn’t read my comment well, but for any descent parents there child is first before anything, we will give them our hearts if they need it. So asking me delete my option just because you don’t like it is not in the right.

Oooook Karen (⌒▽⌒)

Hihihi I’m not even American, and I’m sure the omega guy is more Karen like.

You will never understand severe depression if you never experienced them. Explaining are useless anyway. With how society of Korean people think even I myself wouldn't even survive like Hyesung did. Expectation of people that you how you suppose to be... that's why a lot of people choose to suicide. Mom's instinct? I even not really believe that kind of thing actually exist in the first place. Because if they do why there's a lot of children got abuse and abandoned (like Hyesung did). Madam how your children behave Infront of you and everyone else are different. Because I, myself wouldn't be the same when I'm with my family, with my friends and with strangers.

Ps. Please ignore and forgive about your children part. I don't even know what am I thinking about.. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

This person's comments makes it sound like they're a character from a manga. I mean, great for you for that outlook on life? But shame on you for ridiculing people who lead a different life than you and responding differently to certain situations.

Even if I don’t have to explain myself more, but I will telll you that I experienced deep depression when I tried to kill my self, seriously like I said you talk to me like you know me , but after I had my kids the whole worlds changed, and I’m from conservative society , when people expect a loot from you, maybe more than Koreans. And like I said not all mother are good mooost there is assholes in enythinb and everywhere, I’m sure we are not from the same society or culture and even generation, so because of this we differ, and if you thunk than mother instinct doesn’t exist please don’t try to have kids if your not sure.

What I will never tolerate any parents who doesn’t take care of their kids, of course insanity is the exception.

Why?? It's not that I don't believe it. I said it's not very accurate and it's better to talk properly to children and ask their intention. Because your instincts alone cannot understand the whole situation that surrounded your children. You must talk to them and try to understand them, don't you agree? And about depression. I do have deep depression until today that thing still have in part of me. Kill myself? Don't joke around. I do that nearly every single time my negative mind take over. But it's not worth it. Why? First, it's hurt. Second, my life already sad why should I stay in hell and make my afterlife even more sad? I'm not that kind of person. So that's how I survive till this day while waiting for death

I think that you’re waaay out of our subject, we were talking about the mom not caring about the child because he’s depressed, I don’t understand why you’re talking about talking to my kids to understand them, you know persisting just to persist is not good,and when I talk about the motherly instinct, is about taking care of my kids with every thing I I have and taking care of them, not taking descion in there place, I’m really lost when you said that. for killing my self noooo way now because I have a human beings to care for, if I don’t no one will. And your way to survive is good too, it’s your reason. My is my kids, it’s for this I say he needs to get his shit together, I’m not making depression a light thing, but when you are responsible of a human being shit needs to change, imagine if he was just him and the child and he did this ? What will the consequences be? You think he will act differently if he was alone? I’m sure not. When I was reading this story I thought that his character will change with time and that he will mature, but for me it was a disappointment. And I talk from a mother side.
Ps: I’m sure I’m way older than you , and this argument is turning to stubbornness more that trying to talk with logic, one thing, try to put your self in the kid’s shoes and think if it’s fair or not? Please think calmly and logically

If I'm in Byul shoes I will blame (kill) the person who made my mom like that. Because that's exactly what I intend to do back when I was young when my mom crying infront of me. I don't blame my mom because she's didn't do anything.

I think what they're trying to say is that when children grow up, many would want to share their parents' pain or help shoulder it. When Byul grows up, he'll probably want to learn more about his grandparents, which would lead to conversations about how his grandfather (don't know about Hyesung's mom yet) was a shit parent. There's all this talk about how Hyesung has to "pick up the slack" when, really, you don't know how Byul would feel in this situation when he thinks back on it when's he's older.

Now, I do want to go back to your reply on my comment. What do you mean by "insanity is the exception?" Do you mean if the parent is not mentally capable in medical terms? Because if so, shouldn't you be okay with Hyesung doing what he's doing? Unless I'm misinterpreting this. My stance is that it's okay if you need to step back and be alone to process trauma and whatnot. When you have support around you, you can overcome it. That's strength right there because weaknesses are different for everyone. Once you're okay mentally, you're in a better place to take care of your kid. Instead of keeping it in and having it explode on you one day. Don't you have moments when you get so mad, you have to step away a bit for your emotion to die down? It's like that. You'll bounce back with a clearer mind.

I think it's just a bit silly to say that because you can become superhuman and overcome depression when it comes to your kids that other people can do the same. If someone said, "If I could win gold medals, so could you," how would you respond? For any profession, if someone could do it, maybe you could do all of them. That's what you sound like. People have their own limits in what they can do.

Right!! Like where is the justice for the omega, Idk why that ch even happened if they were gonna just sweep it under and forget about it by the end.

The sad thing is that this world is based on unfairness. There are so many of her kind that just get away with their disgusting actions....