and feel free to do some info dump about it too!! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ I have ADHD and love mythology/folklore of any culture or ethnicity, The language of flowers and Herbology ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ My younger has Autism and loves the video game lore and documentaries about the process of making animated movies (any animated movie)
How did you realize something was off? and when did you get diagnosed? I'm in my late 20's and Got diagnosed with severe ADHD at 19 and suddenly everything made sense(?) I spent so much time thinking I was "broken" or the problem because every child psycologist kept calling me a gifted child and my narcissistic parents kept piling their expectation......
I can understand why so many people who identify as introverted can find this a bit frustarting but hear me out. I'm an introver myself and my closest friends are extroverts and something I've noticed in manga like these with "introverted" main characters they're usually not necesarily a natural introvert but rather just them displaying self protecting behaviours born from traumatic social experiences and sometimes I find myself with the same issues but here's the deal, I've went from being a reclusive and depressed introvert to a ambivert I was so head set on trying to avoid social experiences and relationships because of fear and social anxiety that I never bothered trying to step out of my confort zone and doing so for a LONG time can be quite harmful for your mental health after all humans are social creatures by nature, my friends who are significantly more social than I am created safe opportunities for me to interact and meet new people while also respecting my boundaries and it has helped me grow significantly as a person, yes I'm still half an introvert and get drained from socializing and shy around people sometimes but I went from not being able to even order my food at a restaurant to actually be able to start a conversation and even expressing physical affections to those I'm comfortable with. Sometimes you need someone to nudge you out of that fear cycle
does the ML feel really one dimensional to anyone else? maybe it's because we haven't gotten as much on him as we do the female lead and I'm jumping the gun here (don't hate him or anything and I quite like the comic) but so far it feels like being unrealistically super kind is his only personality trait? (￣∇￣")
I tremedously love the artstyle its absolutely stunning, however the story is dragging on way too much. we're almost on chapter 80 but aside from possible love interests (that don't even matter cause she won't end up with anyone other than the ML) the plot hasn't actually moved at all and the FL is the literal definition of a MARY SUE, she's blessed in every possible way, looks, family, powers and everyone loves her no matter what she does
perfect when she works, Perfect looks, Perfect family, perfect personality perfect brains PERFECT EVERYTHING
Don't misunderstand me I don't read phantasy expecting realism but I want characters that at the very least are capable of having actual flaws or are relatable people in some way