やめて~'s Things

Random but I need help, so I have two jobs, but I am on a leave of absence on one of the jobs and idk if I should go back to work or quit all together. I have talked to my coworker and she said that the job has become boring and that everyone we knew is leaving. My work crush is still working and I need the extra money for Christmas. Should I go back for the month of December? But if I go back my both works would collapse around the same timeframe and would have to ask someone to cover for me for either jobs and I just feel like it’s too much work. But I lowkey miss it bcs I want to see my coworkers, but I don’t want to work if i don’t see my work crush or work bestie. Ahh idk this is a hard decision for me lmao

Im curious, we all have live different lives so I was wondering what has been yall recent regrets. My was not going to my crush house that he had invited me to eat with his family because I felt that we were not that closed and probably would feel awkward being at this house, but now I regret it so much because that could’ve been a big step for us, I mean we were going to go out and eat anyways, but he probably wanted me to come to his house, if he didn’t he wouldn’t have offered. I’m so dumb and this going to haunt me forever

This is my go-to vent web, so what does it mean when a guy,who was your ex-situationship and coworker, invites you out to eat after closing and you have a great time, but you found out that same night while eating tgt that he has a gf through his lockscreen, so I just congratulated him but still find out weird that we went out only us alone while him having a gf. Fast forward 4 days later he not longer has his gf in his lock-screen, when I ask him about his gf he said he didn’t have one?? And like 2 days later he called to see how I was doing after months of no contact?? “Not really “no contact” cuz we work tgt but I mean in like texting/calling way”. I still like him a lil, is it weird to get your hopes up? Tbh I find the whole gf weird, but one of these nights he introduced me to his mom??

So this guy I have been talking to has started ghosting me for no reason and idk what to do. To keep it simple, we have went on a few dates (we weren’t dating, just to get to know each other) and the whole thing was wholesome and so pure. I thought we were hitting it off and having a good time, we have the same humor and everything so it’s not like it was awkward. The only thing is that my first language isn’t English so I have a thick accent but he said he don’t mind, that he actually liked that, anyways. On our last date, the mood was just so good that we kissed, the thing is that I don’t think I’m that good at kissing, I’ve only kissed like 2 people before that but that much. Fast forward, I don’t think it felt awkward after the kiss, we continued walking and talking like a couple would yk. The main problem is that when his father picked us up, we made out a lil in the car, which now that i think about it its disrespectful but not like we made sounds or anything, anyways when I got home we gave a last kiss. Afterwards he went to NY for 3 days and I noticed he was distant and responding after few hours but I understood bcs he was in NY with his family. When he got back home, he called out from work (we work tgt) and literally ghosted me the entire day. Tdy he responded to my messages and I quickly asked him if there was problem, and if I did something wrong, but he left me on read. Ik this is a lot but I seriously need a reality check from someone and tell me that if what we did was wrong. Also he met my mommmmm, which makes this so the more worst bcs if we really going to stop talking, it’s annoying now that my mom has met him and introduced themselves. I’m so disappointed bcs I really liked this guy and him ghosting me for no reason is so upsetting, like I didn’t do anything wrong.

How bad is it to date someone 2 years younger than you? I’m 18 yo but the dude is 16 and it feels wrong in a way. He’s still in high school while I am in college , and just that makes me feel weird. But he’s a nice guy, he have the same humor, knows how to take a joke, it’s not impulsive, knows how to be respectful and not to cross the line (not like other people my age) and I genuinely like to be with him. We have a language barrier but that doesn’t bother him nor he makes fun of it. I honestly don’t think is that bad, I’m just scared that I’ll get judge from people ik