やめて~'s Things

So this guy I have been talking to has started ghosting me for no reason and idk what to do. To keep it simple, we have went on a few dates (we weren’t dating, just to get to know each other) and the whole thing was wholesome and so pure. I thought we were hitting it off and having a good time, we have the same humor and everything so it’s not like it was awkward. The only thing is that my first language isn’t English so I have a thick accent but he said he don’t mind, that he actually liked that, anyways. On our last date, the mood was just so good that we kissed, the thing is that I don’t think I’m that good at kissing, I’ve only kissed like 2 people before that but that much. Fast forward, I don’t think it felt awkward after the kiss, we continued walking and talking like a couple would yk. The main problem is that when his father picked us up, we made out a lil in the car, which now that i think about it its disrespectful but not like we made sounds or anything, anyways when I got home we gave a last kiss. Afterwards he went to NY for 3 days and I noticed he was distant and responding after few hours but I understood bcs he was in NY with his family. When he got back home, he called out from work (we work tgt) and literally ghosted me the entire day. Tdy he responded to my messages and I quickly asked him if there was problem, and if I did something wrong, but he left me on read. Ik this is a lot but I seriously need a reality check from someone and tell me that if what we did was wrong. Also he met my mommmmm, which makes this so the more worst bcs if we really going to stop talking, it’s annoying now that my mom has met him and introduced themselves. I’m so disappointed bcs I really liked this guy and him ghosting me for no reason is so upsetting, like I didn’t do anything wrong.

How bad is it to date someone 2 years younger than you? I’m 18 yo but the dude is 16 and it feels wrong in a way. He’s still in high school while I am in college , and just that makes me feel weird. But he’s a nice guy, he have the same humor, knows how to take a joke, it’s not impulsive, knows how to be respectful and not to cross the line (not like other people my age) and I genuinely like to be with him. We have a language barrier but that doesn’t bother him nor he makes fun of it. I honestly don’t think is that bad, I’m just scared that I’ll get judge from people ik

Mines is Candy by Prada and Born in Paris by Valentino?

Am I the only one who hate the “I love you” love you too bestie” cuddling, touchy, text each other with cringe ahh emojis and cringe ahh bs (unless jokingly) , talk in high pitch voices when they talk type friendship, I mean I don’t hate it but for me I feel like that’s just a friend, not bff material for me. I want friends that I can hit and they don’t get mad, make fun of ourselves but not to much, actually have conversations that we make us laugh everytime 24/7. Personally I don’t like to get complimented every time we see each other, maybe once in awhile, but not all the time bcs it doesn’t feel genuine no more. Idk if I’m making sense but I hope I’m not the only because I have a friend that act like the first one, we are not even close, we just hang out between classes bcs she doesn’t want to be alone, but sometimes she just cringe me out so bad that I can’t even laugh no more. Does that make me a good friend tho? I like her bcs she nice and all but I can tell she’s kind of hypocrite

Bruh I’ve been struggling finding friends at college, I just have like 2 classmates that I talk to in class but no after class yk. It’s literally impossible to make friends here, specially bcs I’m a commuter so I don’t have dorm friends neither. My first language isn’t English so it is also hard to talk to people in English because of my strong accent, and everyone has their group of friends already so it is too late. I can’t join any clubs because I work and I don’t have the time, plus these clubs at my school are so uninteresting that it doesn’t even make me want to join. The school is all white people (no offense) and I feel like it is hard talking with them. I’ll just spend this 4 years of my life alone cuz damn it is hard.