YES! The terms are completely fine and are harmless if you’re just using it to define the top/bottom, but the way bl readers label an entire character and call them by ‘uke’ or ‘seme’ is so weird when they could easily say mc/ml like a het manga does?? reply
chronically online people scare me, because their mentality is so different.
i call them social justice warriors because when i used to interact with them and was chronically online myself during covid, it was horrible. they will cancel you for anything, whether you’re not gay or progressive enough, or you like a certain idol is a landmine for t...... reply
you’ve probably already read it since it’s so popular, but ‘Trash of the count’s family’
Quite literally just a guy trying to make sure he can basically retire peacefully in the isekai’d world and all the characters are like family, very wholesome.
otherwise, bump because i’m looking for some too, and i’ll be stealing your list
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for bls: when i see homophobia/internalised homophobia or when the words women/girlfriend are being thrown around like a buzzword (basically heteronormativity in a gay fiction lol)
edit: + “we’re both men,” “i’m not even a women” and anything remotely related to mentioning ‘turning gay’
i know i might’ve said this alot on this ...... reply
I saw your comment about you being older and mentioning having a feeling of confusion for what a crush is when you were younger. I know it doesn’t answer your original question for ‘what a crush feels like,’ but I just wanted to say some things to someone who is in a similar boat to me.
I think first of all, don’t worry about labelling you...... reply