Chinchan

I dated a guy that was a huge M

woah really ok dont wanna be rude but what do u feel like when you found out that he a m.u see i just wanna know what ppl think abt some one who a m (￣∇￣")

um it depend on the mood ig,im switch too ahhahahahahahah i just i dont know how to tell soneone i real life that i enjoy all this thing,u know... soo i just wanna know what do ppl actually think of all this SM stuff

Nah he was being super clingy and overbearing and in the end I was putting more into the relationship than he was. He wasn't respecting me outside of when we had sex and I wasn't interested in a physical relationship. I'm fairly mild mannered and not really an S either but I didn't mind fulfilling whatever fantasy/scenario he wanted to do except he would never do the same for me. Even outside of sex he would always expect things from me but would never return tje favour. The relationship was becoming kinda toxic and it didn't seem like he cared so I ended up breaking up with him.

I'm not really sure? I don't think there's anything wrong with it and everyone's entitled to their own interests.

If it comes up in conversation with your partner you should definitely tell them about your interests or if there's anything you want to try. Even if theyre not an S or an M they might still be willing to do whatever play you have in mind? You just need to keep in mind that sex is about everyone taking part and that if they're willing to do S&M play for you, you should be willing to do more vanilla plays for them too. Just make sure you guys communicate to make sure everyones happy and enjoying themselves!